blatham - I am all too aware that I have to struggle to see past my own biases as much as anyone else does.
For instance, I seem to carry around some pent up frustration at things I perceive to be well-intentioned but ill-considered policies, positions or platitudes of what I call "the left" (though I suspect I'm really thinking only of the very very very very far off in the distance left). Anyhow, I have such a knee-jerk reaction at times to news stories of this or that effort by the government to "solve" some problem or intervene in some "crisis" that I find I have developed a very calloused response to news stories about people in crisis. While my frustration is not with these people, but with the federal government's attempts to "fix" them, my wife has pointed out to me on several occasions recently that to her I seem not just uncaring, but hostile towards these people in need.
As stated above, I know that a lot of this is spilling over from my political frustrations, but I also suspect that some of it is a defense mechanism with which I allow myself to avoid the unpleasantness of experiencing empathy for these people.
What am I learning from this you ask? Well, for one thing I can understand how easy it is for people on the left to think that those on the right are callous and uncaring (certainly if I come across that way to my wife, I can only imagine the perception others might have). The other, more important thing I am working to learn is to sidestep the "wrong" reaction and work to consider these "stories" with a bit more depth.
Well, that's enough of me spilling my guts for at least a few months. I have a reputation as an uncaring right-wing fanatic to uphold!