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I'm 26. How to approach a 40 year old woman?

 
 
paulaj
 
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Reply Sun 21 Nov, 2004 02:53 pm
I'm just a bit surprised hearing that something innocent can be misconstrued so easily.
I should be more careful perhaps.
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rodbogey
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 10:21 am
denisemn wrote:
Many "older" women enjoy younger men, otherwise known as boy toys.

Next time you run into her, don't just say hello, stop and introduce yourself. Chit, chat with her, ask if she'd like to join you for a walk, or a drink or coffee. She'll either say yes or she'll say no.

If you get that far, then by all means, be up front & honest. Let her know you just want a no strings attached f*** fest. You're definition of liberal, may be different from hers. You'll get your answer in one form or another.

Curious, how did you happen to see her phone# on a bill if you've only seen her in passing?


That´s because when i moved to my apartment she introduced herself, I did not pay too much attention to her at that time, but then i realized she´s an absolute hottie
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rodbogey
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 10:24 am
Once again thank you very much guys and girls. I think I´m ready for my move now
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DBro
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 10:25 am
Rodbogey 40yr old women
Hey Rod if she is 40yrs + she is hanging for it, go the direct approach and just ask her for some action Very Happy But it sounds like you might be stalking her, watching and How did you get to see her phone bill Twisted Evil
Cheers DBro
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paulaj
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 11:38 am
Re: Rodbogey 40yr old women
DBro wrote:
Hey Rod if she is 40yrs + she is hanging for it, go the direct approach and just ask her for some action Very Happy

Hmm.
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 11:41 am
Upon reading through the new posts, how about just ignoring her, and be really really good looking?
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 11:47 am
And guys wonder why they can't get laid....
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paulaj
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 12:51 pm
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
And guys wonder why they can't get laid....


Do they really, Slappy Wappy?
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 01:19 pm
Guys who say things like "just walk up and tell her you want some action."
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Wed 24 Nov, 2004 01:33 pm
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
Guys who say things like "just walk up and tell her you want some action."


Aww, come on...I thought that was the bomb! Oh wait, no I didn't.
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rodbogey
 
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Reply Fri 26 Nov, 2004 05:00 am
Re: Rodbogey 40yr old women
DBro wrote:
Hey Rod if she is 40yrs + she is hanging for it, go the direct approach and just ask her for some action Very Happy But it sounds like you might be stalking her, watching and How did you get to see her phone bill Twisted Evil
Cheers DBro


I think that she could feel like a prostitute with the direct approach, but thanks for the advice, I'll take it into account when the time comes...
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rodbogey
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 03:05 am
Thank you all for the input guys. Thought I had to share with you guys the outcome. I finally phucked her. It was absolutely amazing!
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 08:12 am
Rod, you suck without details.

How did it all go down?
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paulaj
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 08:33 am
I'm curious as well. How did you get her Rod?
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 08:42 am
rodbogey- Whoopidoo! Now you can be a real gentleman, and tell everybody all the tiny details. I am sure that the woman would be thrilled to know that you are broadcasting your eacapade with her all over the internet.

What a man you are! Evil or Very Mad
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dyslexia
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 08:45 am
Sometimes I do wish I beleived in karma.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 10:11 am
Or truckma.
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panzade
 
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Reply Sun 2 Jan, 2005 10:12 am
shouldn't it be lorryma?
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rodbogey
 
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Reply Sun 9 Jan, 2005 02:56 am
Phoenix32890 wrote:
rodbogey- Whoopidoo! Now you can be a real gentleman, and tell everybody all the tiny details. I am sure that the woman would be thrilled to know that you are broadcasting your eacapade with her all over the internet.

What a man you are! Evil or Very Mad


Unfortunately for our moralistic friend, Phoenix32890, I'll have to share with you guys some of the details of my experience.

It was new years eve and I had nothing to do so I went shopping during the afternoon and went back home. I had been approaching her for the last few weeks by greeting her in a more friendly way or doing a little bit of chit chat whenever we met at the parking lot. So I got back to my apartment and met her while she was also coming back from some errands and asked her what would she do that new years eve. I honestly thought she'd be going to a party or so but she told me that she had nothing to do and that she probably would just go to bed early and wake up in 2005.

I just thought I had a huge chance of hooking up with her so I asked if she'd like to have some glasses of wine with a nice pasta I was planning to cook for myself. She agreed and that was the beginning of THE NIGHT.

Around 9pm she showed up and we started talking about christmas time and new years eve and how boring is to be alone during the holidays and blah blah blah. She was dressed casual -do not think this is like a porn movie script or something- but the underwear was fabulous -tiny red lace thong matching with her bra, mhhh-. So one thing lead to another, we were talking about previous relationships, solitude, how rare that situation was -a woman in her early 40s in a 26 yo man's apartment during new years eve-, etc. We were having a couple of bottles of wine and I thought there was a special connection since we forgot dinner and we just kept eating cheese, olives and prosciutto. Then we started talking about sex and suddenly I knew the court was set up, so we started kissing and then everything happened. It was such a nice evening that we didn't even noticed when did we switched to 2005.

As for what happened afterwards, we talked and agreed on that we should keep an uncommitted relationship for the moment. She really seems to enjoy uncommitted sex so that's great. We have met a couple of more times during this week to relief some sexual tension and it's been great. So once again thanks a lot guys, you really helped me on a particular issue I didn't quite know how to handle and all I can say is that it's really nice to know that, as time goes by, there's more and more people willing to share intimacy in an uncommitted, uncomplicated way, just following the desire's law. For me, that's absolutely nice, especially on a woman like my neighbor.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Sun 9 Jan, 2005 05:46 am
rodbogey - As far as being "moralistic", I have no problem with consenting adults having uncommitted sex, if that is what they both want.
My difficulty is when one of the couple goes around spouting about the conquest, as if the other person was an object that he had acquired.

I used to talk a lot about my "adventures", to a few close friends, but not half the immediate world. I stopped that, in my 20's, when I realized just how disrespectful it was to the other person.
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