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What made you smile today?

 
 
urs53
 
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Reply Mon 17 Apr, 2006 02:45 pm
We went out for dinner to a very nice and expensive restaurant in a castle nearby tonight. One of the regular guests from the restaurant where BigDice works was also at this restaurant.

We had a very nice evening although poor BigDice had a slight allergic reaction to his main course - which was one of the most expensive dishes on the menu...

When we asked for the check, we were told that this regular guest of BigDice's had invited us. He had already left by that time. What a nice surprise!
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nimh
 
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Reply Tue 18 Apr, 2006 01:33 pm
More of a giggle, when reading this:

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A few days ago, a middle-aged friend of mine went into his local DVD-store-cum-internet café. As he was browsing the DVDs, he noticed two girls in their late teens who appeared to be "chatting" to each other over the internet, even though one was facing the other, albeit with their faces hidden by their screens. He knew this because they were using webcams.

Intrigued, he watched the nearest girl tapping away, then surreptitiously walked around the tables to check the screen of the other one. A message flashed up on it: "Ohmigod. Now he's standing behind YOU."

from the Daily Telegraph
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Francis
 
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Reply Tue 18 Apr, 2006 01:40 pm
That made me smile, Nimh!
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mac11
 
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Reply Tue 18 Apr, 2006 02:24 pm
Me too! Very Happy
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nimh
 
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Reply Sun 23 Apr, 2006 03:50 pm
(I was busy typing this afternoon...)

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The sun, the sun, the sun! Oooh, its nice, its warm, the sun is already burning, not just faintly warm but its summer, summer is here! You cant imagine how happy that makes me, how every time I become aware of it again I break out in the biggest grin - what liberation! From now on I just wanna be sitting outside, on some terrace under the trees, on the island or in some park or on some cafe's sidewalk chairs ... till October! My Budapest, I found you back again. Theres nothing as intimidatingly awesome as the St Stephens Basilique in a snowstorm, but still - this is the city I actually like, I fell in love with. Welcome back.
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flushd
 
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Reply Sun 23 Apr, 2006 04:05 pm
everything is making me smile today...
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nimh
 
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Reply Sun 23 Apr, 2006 04:21 pm
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Ok, plus I'm having a nice coupla days. Thursday was really cool. I went to this literary reading in the Spinoza House in the afternoon - you see - well, theres a little story behind that.

A week or two, three ago, my Italian colleague showed me a glossy leaflet from the Dutch embassy which had all the cultural events these three months that involved Dutch guests. She pointed at the name, Abdelkadir Benali, and said, I'm really interested in him, I've heard about him, would like to go to that reading! (Benali is one of a handful of Moroccan/Turkish/Iranian-Dutch writers that grabbed attention breaking through in the last few years.) I cast a glance at the event, an interview of Benali with a debuting Dutch writer, and my eye catches on the picture of the debuting writer: I know that girl! She changed her name, but she was in school with me! We were part of an amorphous group of friends, we were called "the vague ones", I found out later (too sweet to be punk, too alternative to be normal). I really liked her, we had fun, she actually played an important role in my development then. Before I knew her I was a shoe-gazing, black-clad, shy introvert; after getting to know her I became a people-hugging, jumping-round, shy introvert. Cool! She was now, apparently, an invitee of the Hungarian Book Festival, in the subprogramme of the festival of European debut writers.

So, Thursday, she had her interview with Benali, so I skipped from work and went there at 3, interested in her writing, and also wondering if she'd even recognize me, or whether I'd even tell her, or just listen and leave. The interview was in Dutch, yet the place was packed, to my amazement, musta been fourty, fifty people there, young people, most all Hungarians, who apparently all spoke Dutch! Who'da known! The interview was cool, they were great, relaxed yet intent, engaging, a conversation with flow that broke into plenty interesting themes; plus, I got to hear some first things about what she'd done in the 17 years since we last met; a fascinating life, with much initiative, travel, improvisement and lust for life, just like I'd have imagined. (She's lived in Barcelona and New York, been a musician, journalist, editor, bartender, welder.)

It was nice to hear Dutch being spoken, on this level; it's been a long time since I took joy from hearing Dutch like that (normally, when I hear some Dutch people in a pub, I cringe). Jowi (my old friend) was great, she broke open the interview to the audience several times, engaging in a dialogue, with sincere curiosity, eagerness to hear, interact - which kinda took the Hungarians by surprise - they're used to writers being intellectual men who converse on a podium above, who are basically born into an intelligentsia status an ordinary Hungarian wouldnt even aspire to, and who are approached with some reverence, expected to be as much a kind of national guidance figure, prophesising and opinionating, as simply writers of stories. The interaction was interesting; the audience endearing. I was talking with a university teacher afterwards, turns out there's 200-300 students of Dutch here, more of 'em at her university than there are French students!

So, I did approach her afterwards, she did recognize me, we started talking and didnt stop for a long time. That was at the reception afterward. It was cool. She is still as open and direct and curious about - well, big questions, the questions of life most of us stop talking about when we move out of the student house - enthusiastic, eager. Kinda like we never stopped talking 17 years ago, cool.

I also talked with someone of the Dutch embassy who asked me to mail later, and with Abdelkader - about the joy of tailor-made shirts. He asked me to come along when the reception ended, and the seven of us walked across town to Kultiplex, sat in the garden there. Where he dived into an animated discussion with me about 1980s politics, Trotskyites, identity and the personal politics of it, Musa Shanib, literature, Graham Greene. A very cool man! Also very genuine, spontaneous, enthusiastic - and with a lot to say.

Then, when they left, Jowi told me to come along to the reception she had next. It was great, it was in the Petofi Sandor Museum, a stately old downtown "palace" beautifully restored in Habsburg-era style, a place I'd otherwise never seen. A hundred people must have been milling about there, and we didnt know where to go, but she recognized a fellow-invitee from his photo, we found another one, there was food, and then we were herded into a room for the programme of the next few days (cos they keep those writers busy).

From the reception we walked to Jowi's hotel. A very nice place, and she'd asked for a room right on the Danube: the windows opened to a magnificent view, the Parliament, Chain Bridge, Gellert Hill to the right, the river resplendent right in front, and we leaned out of the window and like that, talked for another hour or so- came home at midnight.

It was so nice to meet such interesting people, and kind too, and it all just works out all by itself! Such a nice day. And I really hadnt thought!

(tbc)
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nimh
 
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Reply Sun 23 Apr, 2006 04:23 pm
flushd wrote:
everything is making me smile today...

Hey Flushd, whasup, what happened? Tell us! Very Happy
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flushd
 
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Reply Sun 23 Apr, 2006 08:05 pm
nimh, your writing sucks me right in. I love the stories you tell. I get to live vicariously Smile

Well, ehh, tis love in the air and cleared hearts/minds, the sun is shining hot, i played on the swings in the park, got my hands dirty, a good friend of mine is enjoying some much needed mental health, dogs are humping, I told my mother i love her for the first time in several years w/out the plague of resent, and I am eating fresh green salad with strawberries.

Life is just goood:)

hey, i was due!
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nimh
 
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Reply Mon 24 Apr, 2006 02:49 am
flushd wrote:
Life is just goood:)

Sure sounds like it! Very Happy
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nimh
 
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Reply Mon 24 Apr, 2006 02:14 pm
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(still from what I was all typing in the sun, yesterday)

The day after they were all herded off on an excursion, but I caught up with them Saturday afternoon when Jowi was signing her books at the Book Festival. In a convention centre somewhere in Buda - man! - a thing you'd never see in Holland I dont think, a huge, bustling place, three floors of stands of all publishing houses, signings and readings everywhere, the place crawling with visitors, bottlenecks of people, such attention!

I found a beautiful, three-part atlas about Hungarian election results from 1920 to 1996, that I'd read about on Internet, and that at the festival was sold at half price, 25 euros. The debut writers were goofing around, not much of a line for their signing, we played soccer outside. And then there was the weirdest literary presentation I've ever seen, it deserves a paragraph of its own - but first, another Hitchhikers' guide-degree coincidence. I saw an acquaintance sitting in the hall, a friend of a friend of mine, met him out drinking coupla times. He's a teacher of literature but I've never heard him say anything about either teaching or literature; he is dive bars, drinking and strong stories. He called me over, and well - there was this festival publication with fragments from each debut writer in Hungarian and English translation - and he had done the translation of my friend Jowi's fragment, from the Hungarian translation into an English one! Shocked Small world..

OK, so now all the debutants had been commandeered into a collective presentation, two round of seven writers each. It was bizarre. They'd hired an actor and actress to recite a fragment from each novel in Hungarian translation - with suitable pathos or animation. The presentation started with a flutist - a flamboyant woman with an expanse of blonde-dyed hair and a deeply cut dress, who delivered a bafflingly over-the-top bit of kitsch, and then played for a minute after every second reading or so. I joked to homeboy, oh god, the only thing worse would be if she started playing, like, in the background to the actor reading or something, and that was a mistake because of course, thats what she did next.

The authors were by now in a visible state of shock on the platform, and their quandary was not lessened by the moderator, an equally flamboyant would-be Hungarian Letterman, whose jovial introductions became the bluntest tools through his hapless English. With much pretenseful gesturing, he would turn to a writer and say: "So - your book - I loved your book, I have to say. I think - I would say - the title! Protection. I think - this one word - it says everything about your book, doesn't it? It sort of ... summarizes what it is about! Is that right??" Uhm, yes... I mean, it is the friggin' title.. (she didn't actually say that). "You are from ... <looks> ... Spain! Is that correct?" Uhm, yeah. "You are not just a writer - you are - a biologist as well! Butterflies, you study butterflies. Have you - what I wanted to ask - did you see any butterflies in Budapest?" Eh, yes, I saw one.. "Inside or outside?" Err, outside. "Hungarian butterflies - are they different from Italian ones?!" And so on, and so forth - about three of such inane questions per writer, "Your book! Is it ... about yourself?", "How does it end?". He took the biscuit when, with one writer, he said, your book begins with, a man, who - insert lengthy recounting ending in a question mark; at which, the writer, drily: eh no, thats how it ends actually.. it's literally on the last page. "And now we are going to listen to a fragment of your work!" Cue flutist.

Shocked Hahahaha! Absolutely the weirdest bit of dog-and-pony show I ever saw! The writers turned rebelliously flippant, regressed into monosyllabic answers or, nonplussed, tried to accomodate. My translator friend and I speculated that it was all a plot to strengthen the notion, so beloved among Hungarians, of their being a special, different-than-everyone-else, magically-weird nation; here, they had 14 multipliers who would guaranteed go home and write more about just how weird those strange Hungarians were. ;-)

And so on. I introduced Jowi to her translator, and there was a friend of his, and a Hungarian woman who taught Dutch at the other university, and we herded the group of writers into taxis downtown. I was in the one with the writer who studied butterflies, we talked about Tirana and Edi Rama, because one of the seven languages she spoke was Albanian; she'd been there many times, from 1991 on, even lived there - to study butterflies! The woman from the university was funny too, probably going to go round to one of her classes some time, talk with the students.

Next was a reception at the Austrian Cultural Forum on the stately Andrassy Boulevard. A scruffy, dilapitated courtyard building, hid, inside, a splendour of classical elegance. A huge painting of Sissi, beautiful parquet floors, small orange and lemon trees in the bay window, waiters walking round with platters of food and wine, champagne. For the first time my acquaintance talked at length about teaching, the character of Hungarian students and the historical background of mentality. There was also a Latvian girl poet/novelist/sculptor/libretto-writer who looked like a cloud, softly cut layers of skirt, coat, scarf, and who seemed painfully shy, functioning only in symbiotic union with her friend who had come along to Hungary as her translator, an almost Swedish, bold, girl. But her shyness turned out to be language-related, she didnt speak English, hardly German, but I saw her looking up keenly, smiling almost mischievously, and when I tried talking with her directly she opened up in eager charm. So I ended desperately trying to retrieve five, ten words in Russian - not having said a word in Russian in ten years - but when ten came, another ten came - and although that was pretty much it (;-)), it was fun, she was charming.

Jowi had fallen completely in love with a small group of her fellow-writers during the excursion, they were talking about meeting again in ten years' time exactly, an anthology, one guy hugging another and saying, now, when I come back home, I wont feel so alone anymore, and others chiming in, "exactly! yes!", while sharing a stolen bottle of wine around on a bench in between the now-closing tourist terraces of Liszt Ferenc Ter. About that time I retreated, not part of their magical finding of each other, but endeared by it, hugged Jowi, went home. Thought that would be it but she sent a text this morning asking, "coffee?", so i found her back downtown, like a good tourist guide took her to Gerbeaud, and talked some more about - psychology, one's way in life, things I normally, nowadays, if anything, shirk way back from (tell me a good joke or anecdote instead) - but it was cool.

Yeah, pretty cool, all in all! She's off in a cab to the airport, I've walked down the Danube embankment in the sun taking photos, and now I've been sitting on this terrace under this huge tree overlooking a road and Gellert Hill - Erzsebet-hid Eszpresszo, plastic chairs, plastic tables with green cloth, lots of Hungarians drinking beer and water - and typing. But I gotta go home in a sec, Cs will be over, we're going for dinner in some fancy restaurant, got a voucher.

So - summer and life can be pretty cool - thats all really - in between lonely evenings, weekend days like this, I'll sign up for plenty more thank you very much Very Happy
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nimh
 
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Reply Mon 24 Apr, 2006 02:21 pm
LONG Shocked

sorry...
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sozobe
 
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Reply Mon 24 Apr, 2006 04:28 pm
Lovely!
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nimh
 
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Reply Wed 26 Apr, 2006 04:39 pm
Thankee :wink:
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nimh
 
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Reply Wed 26 Apr, 2006 04:39 pm
I'm back in Holland for a coupla days again, we were launching a report in Holland and I'm supposed to come along to a coupla launches anyway so I took the opportunity. I arrived last night - not knowing whether there'd be wifi at the hotel I first did my work at Schiphol, and arrived in The Hague only near midnight. From Central Station down the boring, pedestrian shopping street, now all locked up behind reinforced plastic shutters (one of those that looks the same in every Dutch town's city centre).

Few things. I passed by a quiet sidestreet and remembered that there used to be a gothish, punkish clothes-shop there. I bought a Joy Division sweater there, and a Smiths t-shirt (so kill me). That was almost twenty years ago. Walk down the street: yes, it's still there! Nothing changed! Still the gothic stuff. Cool. When I turn around back down, a Moroccan kid walking up, baseball cap, stops me, shows me a bracelet, "silver, wanna buy a silver bracelet?". I laugh, say no thanks. Turn right. There's a snackbar there, one of the old no-nonsense brightly-lit plastic-tabled snackbars, fries, kroketten frikandellen. Fries is "patat" in Dutch. "Piet" is a Dutch name of the most no-nonsense old-school kind. Place is called "Piet Patat". Ha. Like it. Just to hit home the message of stripped bare of all pretense, it says something on the (sliding) door. It says, with an arrow underneath, "THIS IS A SLIDING DOOR". Laughing Musta been a dozen too many people drunkenly trying to walk straight through it, or fumbling trying to pull it open.

This is the part of Holland (specifically: The Hague, Amsterdam, Rotterdam) that I like: in-your-face and dry-witted. Its one half of the typical Dutch. The other half, nowadays, is leaping on in luxury. Lots of eateries that in the 80s would not have existed or have counted as exclusive, filled with people imagining themselves to have a loft in London, or office folk blathering on about policy, synergy, "framework" and "steering". Also, more specifically, it's the fratboys, and what fratboys turn into once they pass thirty and start making a shitload of money. Still brawling with a potato in their throat, but in expensive suits, already young members of the old boys club. Lotsa those in the bar of the press club that adjoins the Parliament building, today, after the launch.

They say, he who is 18 and is not a socialist, has no heart; he who is 40 and still is one, has no brains. Well, **** that, the older I get the stronger my teenage (re)sentiment of good vs bad are about these different worlds. I know which side I choose, anyway. Now, though, I entered the heart of the enemy; Cafe Greve, where, from what I remember, posh meets pretentious. But I wanted cake, and to read. As it happens tho, I got lucky, cause tonight is a different night. Salsa night, the glass door said, and I groaned - but now I'm watching a crowded dancefloor twirling, beautiful people. A girl with dark curls turns and turns and turns again in the arms of a Hindustani-looking boy, who overacts his extravagant moves with such vain flair that he manages to look unequallably gay and in love with her at the same time. Two black girls, a very tall one and a very short one, dance together, dressed in extreme Style, both absolutely sensual and gorgeous with their outrageous, awe-invoking Angie Stone/Macy Gray-hair. I'm in love.

The high, round windows get literally steamed up. Looking at all these pairs - she, always, elated, flushed, smiling as he makes her twirl, turn and return to loose embrace - I actually want to learn how to dance as well (being of the punk-then-house generation, I never learnt how to)... it's magical, how it seems a woman can not feel more - beautiful - than when dancing, being danced with.
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margo
 
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Reply Wed 26 Apr, 2006 08:34 pm
Nimh
Just wonderful!

I loved your description of the writers festival! Iwas almost there!
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Eva
 
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Reply Wed 26 Apr, 2006 09:25 pm
Wow.
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Lady J
 
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Reply Wed 26 Apr, 2006 11:58 pm
Getting back to A2K after an absence made me smile today.

I be berry happy! Very Happy
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nimh
 
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Reply Mon 1 May, 2006 05:06 pm
These two both from last Saturday..:

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My friend J's little daughter is sooooo cute, i cant help totally falling in love with the kid every time i see her. She's one and a half now, bright blue eyes that shine, and still the age (and size;) you can throw her in the air and catch her till she giggles and laughs and then keeps trying to climb back up you, stretching out her little hands, pick me up, again! again, wanna do it again! Little kids like that, so quick to attach to you, its mindboggling, you're there a few hours and they dont wanna be brought to bed by mommy unless you come along, squeezing your hand with little strong fingers.

She loves visitors, J says, especially men - it did make me think about families, fathers, cos it is kinda clear she misses a father figure (to all purposes she doesnt have one) - she calls her momma "pappa", and once i'd been there a few hours, started calling me "pappa" too (at which both of us, looking at each other, went, errr... no-oo... "paardje" (horsie), yes theres a horsie there! (on that closet behind me;). And at night, J said, she woke up the other time playfully-slapping her own cheeks just like her dad does/used to do..

Anyway tho, a dream of a little daughter, very open, cheeky grin. Smart too! She cant talk yet, but she understands.. she was picking up something from the floor and J said, to me, I should tell her that goes in the trash, and off the little girl went, kinda stumble-walking (she can't really walk yet, just a little), and J after her, where'd she go?, found her back in the kitchen pushing away at the trashcan lid, trying to open it and throw the little thing she found in. They hear and understand a lot more than you think! Very Happy

I kinda felt guilty that I actually liked being with J and her kid (even) better than with my sis and her kid (my own nephew..) He's really cute too, but - different. Every age also has its own thing - they change so fast!!

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Queen's day i was travelling from place to place this time, plus it was raining, even - in the east at least, in J's town - where I came from. But once in Delft, with my sis' and family, there was at least this one cute market place we got to in time, with a great band playing, and this collection of people that, though different from your standard Dutch, somehow also struck me as very Dutch.

You've got so many alternative parents, for one! You dont have that in Hungary; parents who look like, up to having kids, they still went to concerts, even clubbing every other weekend, or were still doing so. Not the hyper-responsible montessori/new age "alternative" type, but the laid-back, rocky-, slightly squatty-looking crowd. Kinda how you find 'em by the masses in cafes in Holland, Germany, not much elsewhere that I know of.

There's lotsa those without kids too. Like - OK, example of the kind of alternative hip type that you dont get in Budapest: this cute girl, late twenties just thirty i guess: black, knit vest; blue jeans, with over it a skirt, which looked home-made but was probably from one of those hip stores: made from a blue, shiny-texture pro soccer short, player's number on it and everything; plus, like of an added skirt underneath but probably just attached to it, a strip fluorescent yellow cloth with a lace border. Then, under that all, designer white/gold D&G trainers; and she had dark, pretty long hair with rough patches dyed light. Kinda what used to be squatter chic, but what then entered into the hip/alternative fashion scene.

The band was great; it was unclear whether it was called Trafiko or Think of One or that both bands had just joined up together. Like, one of those mestizo mix of styles; the band played a kind of punky skarock, but then had these two Brazilian women, a young woman who sang and played those huge samba drums (one of the guys played another one), and this charismatic little old crone of a dark-skinned woman, sixty-something, who with fierce voice sang, sometimes belted out, Portuguese lyrics, samba/carnival-feel, over it, in between it, but also danced/rocked along with the rest of the stuff too, even kind of headbanging once.

Very cool combo, all kinds of types in that band, and the music too switching genres from ska to experimental almost psychedelic to rock to latin, with gusto. Meanwhile all the little 'uns were running around in the garden, bunch of four-to-six year olds diving into neighbouring gardens, climbing over low walls or just running after each other in troups. Three girls in their early twenties had settled on one of those modern/monumental colourful stone-sofa-kinda-thingies, lying down on it side by side in the sun by then shining, sunglasses on, ignoring all the rest, looked like they were sleeping.

Some stuff about Holland I like, these enclaves of outside-the-box relaxation, laid-back people who dont really care too much about stuff - also typical. <nods>
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nimh
 
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Reply Wed 3 May, 2006 09:59 am
I giggled today, when I was looking news stories back up and this happened to me... :wink:


http://img436.imageshack.us/img436/4373/funnygoogle5dx.jpg
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