@Glennn,
I'm not a doctor and don't play one on TV but when I see those ads and their warnings I think:
"People take these drugs, in part, because they have suicidal thoughts and violent behavior. If they don't work (and they don't 100% of the time) and the person still has such thoughts and behaviors are they side effects of the drugs or simply a reflection of their failure?"
Because of litigation drug companies have gone overboard in issuing warnings about anything that might even smack of a side effect. The result has been a lot of people dismissing the warnings or missing out on an effective drug that can help them.
I'm reminded of the warning about a drug that is supposed to help you quit smoking:
It may cause irritability. I quit smoking and it caused a hell of a case of irritability
Pharmaceuticals have been a huge boon for humanity, but like everything else under the sun, there are problems associated with them.
I am 5' 9" and weigh 163 lbs and yet I have hypertension. I've tried all sorts of things (including diet and exercise) to address it, but they have all failed. So now I take a tiny Lisinopril pill once a day and my BP is normal. Side effects? None that I can pinpoint and whatever they may be (assuming they exist) they are better than me drooling in a hospital bed because of a stroke.
As for SSRI, I am intimately familiar with someone who tried to kill herself because of chronic, intense anxiety. Fortunately, she did not succeed and once put on a regimen of SSRI, her issue was very manageable. I call that a lifesaver.
Finally, imagine modern life without antibiotics. Yes, they have been over-prescribed, but I can tell you that as someone who suffered from chronic bronchitis as a kid, without them I would not be here typing this.
From what I can tell, you are an intelligent free-thinker, but you are also a conspiracy nut. Modernity and scientific advancements are good, and not a way to despoil Eden.