Oy, this thread is just making me feel sexually frustrated.
I most recently dated a guy who'd talk about what we'd be doing after dinner before and during dinner. That was fun. It was like foreplay foreplay. During sex, if it's sincere, I don't mind a little chatter - it's nice sometimes. But, I get shy when I start feeling like I should be talking too. I am of the idea that sex is an animal thing, animals don't talk so much.
But, I do know that talking about it before doing it turns me on.
Hmph, I should just delete the whole last message.
What!! Is that all, littlek!
<throws pizza across room, knocks beer off table, storms angrily away>
<picks up pizza and beer, starts dinner, and grins at Gus' backside on it's way out the door>
littlek wrote:sex is an animal thing, animals don't talk so much.
I'm curious, littlek.... which animals do talk?
(gotta cover my bases)
littlek wrote:Oy, this thread is just making me feel sexually frustrated.
I most recently dated a guy who'd talk about what we'd be doing after dinner before and during dinner. That was fun. It was like foreplay foreplay. During sex, if it's sincere, I don't mind a little chatter - it's nice sometimes. But, I get shy when I start feeling like I should be talking too. I am of the idea that sex is an animal thing, animals don't talk so much.
But, I do know that talking about it before doing it turns me on.
I agree completely.
It is kind of awkward though when somebody says something real filthy and you can't think of a sufficiently filthy response, and you end up saying something weak like, "yeah, grab my peepee you dirty little potty girl!". Embarassing.
heehee, yeah. I have to say, though, that I've never had sex with a guy who's said anything way raunchy. One guy did slap my ass. He said, after the fact, that he hadn't realized he'd done it.
You didn't like the slap on the ass? Maybe he did it too hard. I thought all women appreciated a slap on the ass, as long as it isn't too hard.
It took me by surprise. It was the one and only time a guy has slapped my ass while we were having sex.
So I assume that you would be in the PG-13 category. Did you vote?
You're right! I did vote PG-13
I knew you were a nice girl. Not like that bad Paulaj.
Oh well, we can't all be nice girls ;-)
You know, the bear likes the dirty talk...but you know what I like even beter? The dirty actions......
Geez, to think that this <pointing at myself> is what a good girl is...... <muttermuttermutter>.
panzade wrote:Poor Paula...men hire escorts...why do women generally dislike the practice? Or am I wrong about this?
I can only speak for myself, what would be the point of an escort, a quick meaningless roll in the hay with a stranger? Yuk!
Paula, you like the ass-slap, don't you? Just wondering...