@snood,
snood wrote:
izzythepush wrote:
That's a really shocking story, but it won't change the minds of those who choose not to hear.
Yeah that's why it's so sickening to hear people like Finn eagerly offer up his lofty opinions about the status of black Americans writ large. Just one year ago, a federal appeals court had to strike down voter suppression efforts in NC, writing in their ruling that "African American voters were targeted with surgical precision". Police brutality and the entire criminal justice system is still being used as a bludgeon to keep blacks in their place. The White House itself is being advised by a white nationalist.
People like Finn are always out there - opining about how, often racism against blacks is exaggerated. Volunteering his estimation (gleaned from God knows where - you think he hangs out and talks with any black people?) about the number of blacks living relatively free from the strictures of institutional racism.
There's real harm in letting people like Finn talk you into believing you're crazy for being vigilantly "woke" in 2017. He knows not what the **** he's talking about.
It is a terrible story and it's awful that you had to experience it. I've never denied that racism continues to stain our society, but in the nearly 20 years since your experience, a generation has passed and a new one has grown to adulthood and started having their own kids. Progress is being made. I would love to wave a wand and eliminate it over night, but, of course, that's not possible.
You have no more of an idea of my personal life than I do of yours. You're right that I don't
hang out with black people, if that means being the only white person in a group of individuals, but my limited social circle contains one bi-racial couple (same socio-economic status), several African-American "in-laws" (via nieces and nephews), and African-American friends of my kids (one of whom is gay so I get double points...I'm afraid I have to point out this is a joke). Obviously this doesn't make me an expert on the black experience in America but it certainly provides me with some perspective.
In my company, 43% of the professional staff are African Americans
There are quite a few African-American conservatives who I greatly admire for not only their opinions but their accomplishments: Thomas Sowell, Ben Carson, William T. Coleman Jr., Senator Tim Scott, Justice Clarence Thomas, Shelby Steele and many others. You may consider these men "Uncle Toms," but in my opinion there are few more courageous Americans in our society than black conservatives.
As an African-American you are, obviously, less patient than I am with the rate of progress, and that is more than understandable, but I see no reason to deny that progress is being made. That fact doesn't mean that more progress isn't necessary.
You clearly have a deep antipathy towards me. Fine, I'm not your biggest fan either, but it has nothing to do with the color of your skin, and everything to do with what you post here.
No one is 100% pure of thought or deeds and I won't claim to be, in terms of the former, when it comes to race, but I know I'm not a racist.
Whether or not you concur is a matter of your opinion. I only care, because I don't appreciate being defamed.