I only just found out that I was the 'other woman'. I have been sleeping with a younger man since August of last year. He does not have a Facebook account, but I found him through FB due to him having a sports profile. It was through this that I found he had a fiancé who is 20 years younger than me. I never wanted this at all. I didn't know due to her living in another state. I even went to his house many times and there was not a thing that told me he was taken.
I'm so torn. She is the same age as my daughter (he is 10 years older than her and I am 10 years older than him). I would never want my daughter marrying someone who cannot stay faithful even before he walks down the aisle
I am single and would love a relationship for myself. I'm not judging anyone here as I have to admit, it's a kick in the guts to realise that I'm in the shadows, so to speak. I'm not good enough for someone to just want me and be proud to be seen out and about with me?
I never pushed for a relationship with him but it's so disheartening to know, that no matter what, I'll never get anything more than a few hours with him at a time. How horrifying for her, if she ever found out that not only was he cheating but it was with someone who could be her mother.
I'm just sad. We had fun, but it just wasn't real. He did enough to keep me interested but nothing more and now I know why.