I learn that in the last few years. I'm married now, I was a saint all my life, I'm mean religiously saint. I came out of law school I got married and everything seems to be perfect. One day which I don't remember which one, the reality strikes. I asked myself a simple did I live life? My answer was NO! I watch my twenties pass me by, because I was this good guy. I was like now I'm thirties and I never have fun in life.
I always have thing for older woman, I'm a black good looking educated guy. Older white woman about 50's always tell me that I'm a good looking guy and I'm taking good care of myself. Most people don't have an idea how hot are woman at 50's these days, you can't say no to them. I started to flirt with them as well . Some are married and some are not. I met this gorgeous 56 years old lady and first time I set my eyes on her, I said to myself I got to have her. When our eyes met she winked and me, I smile and greet her back. We're seeing each other now and it's great. I really want to live life before I die, the unfortunate part it happened when I'm married. Thanks to my open minded and understanding wife. She doesn't know that I'm doing it, but we have such a topic one day, that as we progressed in our marriage these will come she might see a man she likes and I might see a woman I like as well. The conclusion was let's be as discreet as we can, she let be believe that you're this perfect husband and I said the same.
People who are not married doesn't understand what married couples discuss in their. You might catch your friends wife or husband cheating and you run to tell them but you get surprised as to why they don't divorce because couples discuss such issues.
Now, I want to have a little fun before I get old and I can't do it anymore.
P.S I care less about the saints as long as e and my wife agree.