Common decency dictates that I do not strike a woman in the face for cheating on me. The cheating is not a reflection on me, but on her. Perhaps the reason for her cheating is a reflection on me. Who knows? But violence serves nothing but your bruised ego. Your ego's version of justice is perverted.
Also, now you are attempting to equate the need for physical aggression during war with the need for physical aggression when your partner cheats on you. That is irrational, illogical, and totally lacking in common sense.
You seem to be under the impression that any
analogy is the right
analogy. But that's just another ego trick.