@Lash,
So....you're not making assumptions my comments were "weird", whatever that is? What comments, and what was weird about them? If you're going to throw something like that out there, you need to be able to explain yourself.
You don't like me, or someone asking you to explain yourself? Then stop saying things that would cause someone to ask you to do so.
As I explained previously, I'm wordy, my posts are sometimes lengthy, so what?
I believe you're not interested in clarifying because it would make you uncomfortable to, in that instance, admit that you do/did/say something, because it makes you feel good. What's weird about that?
No, it wasn't intentional. I asked several times, because I believed you were intentionally being advoidant, passive agreessive and unwilling to explain why you feel as you do.
It really doesn't feel kosher to think one can, in a forum or real life, just dump a comment like "I just feel that way" without being willing to say why. Right now, I can explain why I feel it isn't kosher.
Because of a lack of sense of fairness. You for instance, say something, especially something vague, and expect others, all others to just accept it. The reader has taken the time to read what you felt was important enough to write, but you don't feel you need to appreciate that time freely given, by making yourself more clearly understood. That's not fair. Yeah, I know lifes not fair. I don't expect it to be. But, that doesn't mean when given the opportunity, I won't say something about it.
What, so you've made no assumptions about what I asked, and said? It goes both ways.
You think I'm parading, embellishing? What exactly am I embellishing?
Parading? Oh come on. Really? Like no one could go look up the actual conversation if they wanted to? This is an open forum lash, one can't parade anything. It's already all out there.
Just for a moment, can you imagine how frustrating it is to ask a direct question, and to get back an answer of "I don't know why I feel that way, I just do"?
Said none of what tripe? Can you be specfic? All I have quoted you as saying is that you can't explain why you said, or feel something.
Now with more name calling toward me? Dishonest? I "parade" and "embellish"
Why would I care if you are disappointed with me? That belongs to you.
No more disappointed than I am that someone can't explain why they said something. However, that disappointed isn't directed at you, but at the fact there are just so many people who want to be able to say something vague, and get some negative emotion when asked to explain themselves.
That's actually funny. One adult telling another they are "disappointed" in them. My behavior/words "disappoint" you.
Maybe you've been hanging around children to much lash. To say you are disappointed in someone is not meant to show your actual emotions, but to deflect it onto someone else, so they can feel badly.
Not buying into that.