@djjd62,
Then maybe I should just fight nasty with nasty?
I believe I have (with one exception in hears) been completely civil here. I attack ideas, not people and I defend my ideas on a variety of topics without name-calling or personal attacks.
Most of the personal attacks don't bother me as much as annoy me. But they are bad because they shut down interesting discussion (perhaps that is the point). The only time I have really been angry is when Izzy went after my children (honestly that pissed me off a bit).
In my opinion, if everyone discussed and even attacked ideas without personal attacks and name calling, this would be a much better place.
But maybe the answer is to say "**** civility" and just hit back in kind....