@Germlat,
Quote:I think you're wrong though...I hear what women say. And yes some will always go for the new, shiny, loud objects...but--don't be fooled. Most women simply want a substantial relationship with a guy they can trust...no matter how they seem.
The premise of the thread was a man who wants sex without a substantial relationship.
When I say-- "
free sex is the most expensive kind of sex", the implication is that a substantial relationship is a cost. Obviously, for a man who is at a stage of life where he actually wants a substantial relationship isn't a cost.. But there are lots of men who just want sex without the effort and responsibility of a relationship. And there are men who have to pretend to want a relationship just to get sex. Women don't have to do this.
My comments only apply to men or women who want sex without a substantial relationship.
Women who just want sex will have sex with a very small number of select men. Most men in this situation will have sex with any woman who is available (and most of them find it difficult since all the women are having sex the small group of elite desirable men).
The point is that men who just want sex without a relationship have a very different experience then women who just want sex.
I have been in this situation and I know what men get a lot of women to have casual sex with them. Height and muscles are very important. Money and the appearance of wealth is also important. Intelligence.... is not so important (or else us computer nerd types would get a lot more casual sex).
That is why men use prostitutes much more than women do.
