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Is lying better than hurting

 
 
Reply Fri 16 Feb, 2018 10:04 pm
My little sister asked me to speak at her school's career day. Panic attack set in. I had to drop out of high school to take care of her. Now I'm a sex worker along with other jobs to pay bills and things. She has no idea and I don't want her to know. Any suggestion on getting out of this? The teacher thought it would be good for me to talk too.
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roger
 
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Reply Fri 16 Feb, 2018 10:08 pm
@JessieSweetz,
My suggestion is to say 'No', with no reason given.

Just an opinion, but I think your sister's teacher is a moron.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 16 Feb, 2018 10:32 pm
@JessieSweetz,
JessieSweetz wrote:
The teacher thought it would be good for me to talk too.


which of your jobs does the teacher think you'll be talking about?
JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Fri 16 Feb, 2018 10:46 pm
@ehBeth,
she has no idea I hook. She thinks I'm in school, do dog walking and sometimes clean houses and how I do all that and take care of my sister.
JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Fri 16 Feb, 2018 10:47 pm
@roger,
the teacher has no idea I do that.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 08:03 am
Just decline for personal reasons. No need to explain. She can find someone else.


ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 11:38 am
@JessieSweetz,
JessieSweetz wrote:

she has no idea I hook. She thinks I'm in school, do dog walking and sometimes clean houses and how I do all that and take care of my sister.


ok - so she wants you to talk about the things she knows you do

you can either do that or decline because you're too busy with all of your jobs

this is not a big deal
JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 01:16 pm
@PUNKEY,
I guess, I think I feel a bad cold starting, lol. But yeah, just say I would love to but.
Thanks
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JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 01:18 pm
@ehBeth,
Good idea. I was so rattled that I just couldn't think of things. I will have to clean a house and walk some dogs, no way I can get out..Thank you
I might get the flu too, lol.
chai2
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 02:09 pm
@JessieSweetz,
Instead of thinking up more lies, why not just say "No, I'm not interested."?
JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 03:03 pm
@chai2,
Because it means a lot to my little sister, I am interested, just not able to discuss what I do.
chai2
 
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Reply Sat 17 Feb, 2018 05:28 pm
@JessieSweetz,
Well than, go ahead and make up lies to get out of it.

Your decision to overcomplicate.

There's really nothing else to say.

JessieSweetz
 
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Reply Mon 19 Feb, 2018 08:48 pm
@chai2,
I was just sorta over reacting. I told her I will probably have to work and she was all, ok. I was stressed for nothing.
NightFlirt
 
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Reply Sun 16 Jun, 2019 03:25 pm
@JessieSweetz,
The next time this situation comes up be honest about your "legal" jobs. No one says you have to tell them that you are a Lady of the Evening, and it's highly doubtful that anyone is going to raise their hand and say "Didn't I see you standing on the corner of 1st and main last night dressed in skimpy clothes?"
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