Prostitute or Decent Girl

Prostitution is an honest relationship. It is one of the few times that each person in a relationship is completely truthful about what they are getting out of it.

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I think of it as people (not always male) and prostitutes (not always female) using each other. Not a one-way thing, is it?

People in relationships use each other all the time.

Prostitution is an honest relationship. It is one of the few times that each person in a relationship is completely truthful about what they are getting out of it.

Of course there are males who buy this. If no one was buying no one would be selling. Obviously this transaction is worth it for both participants.

You are awfully judgmental of something being done by consenting adults. I don't get the need to be so insulting.

That isn't my thing... but don't people pay extra for that?

maxdancona wrote:

That isn't my thing... but don't people pay extra for that?

Maybe some people do, but in Thailand it seems to be the same price. To the point that you sometimes pay for something you later find out you don't want.

And there's no money-back guarantee, either.

Sorry! As long as you're getting what you pay for I'm good. However, I think many guys don't....and they get suckered into an illusion.

There's a saying in Thailand that if she's the most beautiful girl in the room, she probably isn't.

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I think the exact opposite. Sometimes a guy wants sex without any emotional entanglement. In this case, the fact there is no real emotional intimacy is a benefit (not a problem). It makes the service that much more valuable.

I would want someone I paid to pretend to enjoy it, even if I knew it was fake. On the other hand, sometimes I do actually enjoy providing service to customers at my work... so maybe that she might enjoy her work isn't completely out of the question. But I wouldn't want any emotional intimacy (not even fake emotional intimacy). The whole point of going to see a prostitute would be to have sex while avoiding emotional intimacy.

I don't think men are getting "suckered into an illusion". Quite the contrary, they are paying for an illusion. It is much the same as when I see a war movie... the fact that it is an illusion is the reason I pay. I wouldn't pay to be in a real war.

As Billy Joel wrote "Sometimes a fantasy... is all you need."

Prostitutes use the "fake intimacy" thing to ensnare clients. According to a study by Milrod &Weitzer, approximately one third of men who visit prostitutes, are also looking for emotional intimacy. That may be why the"girlfriend experience" is popular.

FBM wrote:

There's a saying in Thailand that if she's the most beautiful girl in the room, she probably isn't.

I used to look for stretch marks.

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I think of it as people (not always male) and prostitutes (not always female) using each other. Not a one-way thing, is it?

People in relationships use each other all the time.

Prostitution is an honest relationship. It is one of the few times that each person in a relationship is completely truthful about what they are getting out of it.

Sorry! As long as you're getting what you pay for I'm good. However, I think many guys don't....and they get suckered into an illusion.

I think the exact opposite. Sometimes a guy wants sex without any emotional entanglement. In this case, the fact there is no real emotional intimacy is a benefit (not a problem). It makes the service that much more valuable.