aimeemarie123 wrote:you know the first time i went to his house he left the t.v. on for the dog... I walked in and poof barbra was on t.v.... I have been picking on him about barbra ever since...
I have a question... do gay men get erections over women??? beacuse he has no lack of those... so I have noticed.
aimeemarie, some gay men live lives with wives and children, and cruise boys like being gay is some kind of addiction that needs to be hidden. Anything is possible, but I'm not casting aspersions on your boyfriend, just making a point regarding your erection question.
that was to Cav, not you, but perhaps it applies!?
This thread is 'hot' today....quick posting, so to speak.
Ooh, tell us about your opinion of Martin Amis, Cav! He is literally my mortal enemy; just for saying that he wasn't the greatest on a) and b). I could have said that he was a complete b**tard and that his work was s***e; although that would be justified, I would accept his rebuttal. But to write ridiculously about me just for a few opinions-- without ever relating to my thesis in the book-- is just mad.
He doesn't want your heart between rye bread too, does he? Or do you just agree with my dislike of him?
premature expostulation, if you ask me!
dròm_et_rêve wrote:Ooh, tell us about your opinion of Martin Amis, Cav! He is literally my mortal enemy; just for saying that he wasn't the greatest on a) and b). I could have said that he was a complete b**tard and that his work was s***e; although that would be justified, I would accept his rebuttal. But to write ridiculously about me just for a few opinions-- without ever relating to my thesis in the book-- is just mad.
He doesn't want your heart between rye bread too, does he? Or do you just agree with my dislike of him?
I'll just be a gentleman and say he disagrees with me like a bad scallop. I don't know the man personally.
I see.... well. GR maybe needs, I don't know.
I do like him a lot...
may be that explains it...
the night we met we went out for dinner for brandons birthday. then we went to a gentlemen's club... he was really interestedin talking to me not so interested in looking at the strippers.
cavfancier wrote:aimeemarie123 wrote:you know the first time i went to his house he left the t.v. on for the dog... I walked in and poof barbra was on t.v.... I have been picking on him about barbra ever since...
I have a question... do gay men get erections over women??? beacuse he has no lack of those... so I have noticed.
aimeemarie, some gay men live lives with wives and children, and cruise boys like being gay is some kind of addiction that needs to be hidden. Anything is possible, but I'm not casting aspersions on your boyfriend, just making a point regarding your erection question.
I think that might be a myth. Maybe a gay guy could live with a woman, but how could he keep getting horned up for her? I have a feeling that gay guys who live this whole double life (if this is even true), can't be having sex with their wives, and it is just a sham of a life for the wife and husband.
men have really good peripheral vision!
but i would suggest that his 'vision' based on taking a new female aquaintance to a strip bar could be considered flawed!
kicky, it is a sham of a life, but it DOES happen. It is no myth.
I can't think of one instance personally, or any from guys I know, that have held sex from a female because they "like" her so much. But, like Cav, I was pretty clueless for a while with girls, and looking back I lost a lot of "conquests" myself because I didn't know how to play the game, and was too shy.
But you said he's a known player, so that shouldn't be the case.
I'd say he's either sleeping with other girls and has a conscience about sleeping with multiple girls, or he's just not that attracted to you.
What I'm trying to say is, you should get naked with Kickycan. He's a great kisser, believe me. Just watch out for those open sores.
kickycan wrote:cavfancier wrote:aimeemarie123 wrote:you know the first time i went to his house he left the t.v. on for the dog... I walked in and poof barbra was on t.v.... I have been picking on him about barbra ever since...
I have a question... do gay men get erections over women??? beacuse he has no lack of those... so I have noticed.
aimeemarie, some gay men live lives with wives and children, and cruise boys like being gay is some kind of addiction that needs to be hidden. Anything is possible, but I'm not casting aspersions on your boyfriend, just making a point regarding your erection question.
I think that might be a myth. Maybe a gay guy could live with a woman, but how could he keep getting horned up for her? I have a feeling that gay guys who live this whole double life (if this is even true), can't be having sex with their wives, and it is just a sham of a life for the wife and husband.
One of my best friends - her husband was really gay, but managed to have sex with her often enough to keep her puzzled for about 6 years - and to get her pregnant twice. Everyone who met him would say, "Whoa, D's husband is gay, isn't he." Longtime friends would just shrug.
I would think that if he were gay, he'd not be able to have a lot of erections like she claims he does.
D's husband managed - several times a week. We always wondered what he was really thinking about - maybe those 1-900 calls he made on his cell? She finally found one of the bills, and that cracked that one wide open. He's living happily with his new partner, and she's found a physically, instead of emotionally, abusive husband.
Aaaw, Ehbeth, what a sweet story
nothing like a low level of 'judgement' to screw up a life!
kicky - I've often wondered where D learned how to pick her men.
before me he hadn't had sex since december... he said he wanted to hold out and not sleep with anyone because he didn't want to be a player any more... we slept together... it happened when I wasn't prepared... I wanted to look pretty and smell good... I had just gotten out of work and I was not wearing any make up and I was at my ugliest...
needless to say he spooned wit hme after word and asked me to spend the night so he could wake up next to me in the morning..... This is what has me puzzled... maybe he uses these lines on everyone?
I don't know... I am going to see him tomorrow night he works as a bartender... it is senior night and we are going to pre-game at his bar... me and all of my friends. then we are going to the bar that gives the discounts... if we wear our t-shirt... we will see after tomorrow may be he will meet me after he gets out of work and come hang out at the other bar???
