@Ticomaya,
Why a five year old?...Anyway what is the difference between yourself and someone who gets a scholarship or benefit because their color? You're Caucasian but remember, when you walk into a room, people like lola see a white man, when a black man walks into a room, they see a black man. Racial profiling has been committed.
The minute that biological traits deemed by society to be socially significant is used as a criteria...for no valid reason (valid reason being statistical surveys or medical or describing a crime scene) as some sort of an estimator of some other unobservable or unknown attribute implicitly stated or withheld by the judgemental racist slum, for example, racism becomes a factor.
The verbiage lola put to say it is just window dressing on racism.
Now I'm not playing a victim here, however I'd like to make it clear that words have meanings relative to the discussion at hand and Lola should have carefully worded whatever she was going to mean without bringing race into the discussion and second of all it was for no valuable purpose.
It's like asking: Jin Nabors was white?
And then someone replying: Well, he wasn't black.
I mean come on is that really necessary? There is no reason to purposely denying another race. What is a valid reason to do this? This subverting **** can easily be seen as using some psychological power structure against another race to show some sort of dominance in some effort to not loose their territory in their selfish pursuit of legal and fair rights for their own race.