Finn is very much happily married and isn't in the least envious.
As he has written he knows there are wonderful people who happen to be gay and there are absolute shits who are as well.
(Believe it or not, Finn has personal friends who are gay or lesbian [none are transgender to his knowledge]who think very fondly of him.)
This, to me seems to be a true measure of accepting the equality of gays.
If Finn has to walk on eggshells when it comes to gays, but can freely make whatever Southern redneck joke he pleases, that is not a sign of equality.
Finn can't abide the culture of victimhood wherein people identify themselves first as victims and then pick from the long list of accepted victims as their secondary identification (With American and Human coming in far down the line)
Man Up, Woman Up, Gay Up, Transsexual Up...Person Up!
Have some pride and tell the people you think disdain you to f*ck themselves and get on with your life.
Even in a country infested with politically correct liberals, your happiness and success will depend upon what you achieve, and not what is forced upon others.
Whiners are, by definition, miserable.