I didn't take it that way at all cj.
But, how do you know what people who are in your close circle of friends do that you don't know about?
I'm not talking now specifically about prostitution, but really, how do you know what people, even those you are close to do when they're either not with you, or engaging in activities you know they do?
Also, I'm not getting cj, the connection of your travel, what kind of people you meet on your sojurns, and what that has to do with what they do or don't do when you're around?
When I mentioned learning some things about people when they decided to let me in on their lives, or rather, let me in on what they wanted to tell me at that moment, it could just have well been you, or ci, or anyone else.
Actually, this one women who told me something really, well, not so much shocking, more like "you? I'd never have believed it" is someone that, personality wise, reminds me a LOT of mismi.
Now, I like mismi, I respect her very much, I'm not saying anything about her personally, saying she must be like so and so.
But seriously, you don't know what goes on with people. You really don't.
People don't walk around with signs on them saying "I like group sex" or anything like that.
In fact, I've met people that on the surface you'd be positive they would sleep with anything, but were actually very conservative and reserved.
You can't judge a book by its cover, as the saying goes.