@Setanta,
Setanta wrote:
No, you have Miller's version of a racist bigot Jew's opinion.
You have ascribed to me the pejorative of being a "racist bigot." I believe many are racist bigots to one degree or another; otherwise, we wouldn't care if our children married someone in another respective race/religion, etc. Many also socialize in a fairly constricted manner with those in our religion, or proximity, or some other criterion that reflects similarity.
As you know NYC, it is a diverse city of people ignoring those that are "different." I am just quite honest in a New York way, perhaps, in being vocal about our differences. Some of those differences are fairly offensive or distasteful to others. So, we live in constricted existences, associating with minimum people. As you know, the (secular) Jews and Italians in NYC are able to maintain friendships from my generation. However, if we research the bonding between ethnic groups, I believe we find that the Italian that has Irish friends, would not necessarily have Jewish friends. There seems to be a wide chasm between Jews and Irish in NYC that goes back to the 19th century? It is just the social history of NYC. There are African-Americans that have Hispanic friends, and African-Americans that only have African-American friends. It really reflects the nuances of being a New Yorker.
There are even life style nuances too. Gays that associate in an all gay milieu, and gays that have all sorts of friends. And vice-versa for heteros.
Why this need to label someone that discriminates in their preferred associations as a racist bigot? It is as natural as a duck swimming in NYC.
I mean really, would some guy with five tatoos on his arms, calves, and back want to be friends with me, some little Jew Boy, perhaps, in his eyes. He is not a racist bigot. He just lives in a world that values people with his interests, and that may be part of his image with five tatoos?
I think New Yorkers, being cosmopolitan just do not usually stand in judgement, since the only way for this diverse city to live in peace is not to stand in judgement. Have a pleasant day.