@Joe Nation,
My reasoning, in my own little brain, came from the thought (a cartoon light bulb glowed bright over my head) that back in 2008, there were political pundits that were saying that the African-American community was questioning whether, "Obama was Black enough?" At the time I thought that reflected the fact that he was half-white in parentage, and whether someone like that, and perhaps raised also by a white grandmother, was going to be concerned about the African-American concerns as much as many African-Americans are concerned.
Now, with that light bulb switched on over my head, I began thinking that "is he Black enough?" (back in 2008) may have just been the Black colloquial way of expressing an unconscious feeling that Obama the candidate might not REALLY SHARE THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN E-X-P-E-R-I-E-N-C-E? Meaning, that if one's Black ancestry did not suffer under slavery, and then Jim Crow in the South, and the ghettoized life in the northern urban centers, then should that Black man really be thought of as "an African-American 'brother.'"
And, I as a secular Jew whose family came here from Czarist Russia in the latter half of the nineteenth century, am quite comfortable with the country having become a superpower under the hegemony of WASP America. So, there is no shame on me if I would prefer a President, white or Black, that has the panache, if you will, of a family that came here (and stayed here) at least earlier than my own. And, it is more than panache, it is the opinion, that I came to in the military, that if one's family came here prior to 1850 (when the country was basically WASP and Black slaves in the south, or freed slaves in the north) one had no question that they were A-M-E-R-I-C-A-N. However, when I spoke to "ethnics" whose family came here post 1850, I would get an answer that they were patriotic Americans of a certain descent. My point being that WASP's do not have to have that "personal narrative" to FEEL AMERICAN. Ethnics often do, in my opinion. So, I would rather have someone commanding our armed forces that can only define him or herself as American. I just do not prefer "hyphens" in my president's identity. As a private citizen that degree of choice is my civil right. No shame on me. I do not care for the "Jewish mother" guilt trip schtick (which you might be doing unconsciously).
Like I was too young to vote for Kennedy, but based on my feelings, I would not have voted for him because he did not marry an American woman. I prefer my presidents to have generations in this country. I do not care how many immigrants the statue in New York harbor has welcomed. I do not believe that assimilation is like instant grits; in my opinion, it takes generations to shed the possible emotional baggage of other continents, especially Europe (as a Jew I have my belief that only Protestant America can be comfortable with affording Jews equal opportunity).
Please preach to the choir, I am from another mindset.