@hawkeye10,
Quote:Because I believe that kids need to fall down and need to confront adversity so that they can learn how to function as adults without falling apart the first time something bad happens?
So, it's no big deal for you if children are sexually abused by pedophiles? This helps them to "confront adversity"? Being sexually abused by a pedophile is a positive experience for a child in your mind?
Quote:The world would be a better place if people took care of themselves first...
Spoken like a true egocentric narcissist.
Except that children need the protection of responsible adults, and it is the responsibility of adults to provide that care and protection--and that includes protecting them from harm and abuse, including sexual abuse and sexual exploitation.
You are not interested in the evidence of harmful effects of child pornography--you've disregarded all evidence presented in this thread.
You've tried to deny the reality of child pornography by claiming it contains rather innocuous images, when in fact the legal definition, the only definition that matters when people are charged with child pornography offenses, refers to sexually explicit images of children--children who are deliberately posed in sexually explicit positions or actions, children who are shown engaged in sexual acts with adults, children who are shown in scenes of sexual bondage or sadomasochism--all of which constitute sexual abuse and exploitation of the children in those images.
Where is your evidence that children are not being harmed when pedophiles collect and share these pornographic images of child sexual abuse? You disregard victim impact statements, you disregard about 20 years of legal rulings and case law, and you disregard the views of most of the world on this issue.
You seem to feel that all acts, no matter how harmful to others, are perfectly acceptable in the pursuit of one's own sexual gratification--as you said, you take care
of yourself and your own needs first. That you see personal sexual needs, including the desires of pedophiles, as trumping all other issues, including harm to others, reveals your own warped, self-serving, and deviant moral values.
You keep mentioning that you come from an abusive background, you have also mentioned the sexual abuse of your wife and children, and perhaps you have been so conditioned to accept abuse and sexual deviancy as the norm that you no longer have the capacity to understand, either emotionally or intellectually, why such behavior is not only wrong, but repugnant to most people.
You clearly identify with sexual abusers and you consequently deny that they leave victims in their wake, or you actively resent the victims of such crimes and anyone who recognizes or supports them. You appear quite emotionally stunted, or dysfunctional, in your inability to empathize or understand the impact of sexual violations or sexual assaults on victims. Even when you have mentioned your own wife and children, your lack of empathy has been striking, and you repeatedly bring them up only to somehow validate your own alleged experience with sexual abuse. In other words, you use what happened to them to try to make yourself look good--you turn the stories of their abuse into something to benefit
yourself. You don't have the capacity to muster empathy even when it concerns your own wife and children.
You seem to equate appropriate emotional responses with weakness, and you routinely discredit and insult others who express such normal human emotions, such as real anger toward those who sexually abuse and exploit children. Normal people do not maintain indifference or emotional detachment when they feel outrage, and normal people feel outraged when children are abused. Normal people feel outrage when images of children being sexually abused are exploitively circulated and collected by adult pedophiles for their own deviant needs.