@BillRM,
It won't have done a lot of harm to your relations with Chilli, as they provided material assistanceto the UK. The Falklands War was unnecessary, we knew for a year that Argentina was going to invade, Thatcher allowed it to happen, and her relationship with Reagan was a little too close for comfort. She was rock bottom in the polls, if the Falkland War had not happened, or we'd lost, Michael Foot would have been Prime Minister. How do you think that would have affected relations with Reagan?
Anyway the Falkland Islanders wanted to be British, Argentina invaded British Sovereign Territory. It's not that hard to defend the UK's stance, but what about the Suez crisis? It was a shameful episode in post imperial UK history, but Eisenhower favoured relations with Egypt and the Arab World rather than the special relationship.
If you ask anyone over here who they think has the special relationship with America, the answer wouldn't be Britain it would be Israel. We back you up pretty much all the way down the line. You tell Israel to freeze building illegal settlements on occupied Palestinian land, they tell you to **** off, and you still give them billions of dollars in aid, military and other.
There are two things that really stuck in the throat over here. The first was your healthcare debate. It's your county, and you can run your healthcare system the way you want to. What is unforgivable was the way Fox 'news' ran a campaign of smears and lies about the NHS, using the perjorative term 'socialised medicine,' instead of the more accepted term 'universal healthcare.' They even broadcast that if Stephen Hawking were British he would have died by now. He is British, and as far as I'm aware he's still alive and he has the NHS to thank for that.
You really don't know how proud we are of the NHS, it's something that cuts across the polical parties. The NHS was the first example of universal healthcare in the world, and it came about during the harshest period of postwar austerity. I know some systems in Europe have overtaken us in world ranking, but it's still a top rate service, it's main problem now is the Con-Dem government. We feel about the NHS the way you feel about the American flag. How would you feel if one of our news channels ran a regular feature where people would defecate, burn, and otherwise denigrate the American flag? Think about that for a minute, then you'll know why we were so upset.
The other thing that was upsetting, was that when an Anglo-American multinational corporation polluted vast swathes of the American coastline your president insisted on repeatedly calling it BRITISH Petroleum. It's not called that, hasn't been called that for years. It's called BP and it's as much American as it is British. The British people were not resposible for the pollution, a multinational was, and it's the multinational that should pay. This created the bizarre situation, in which a public school educated toff like David Cameron, could phone up the first black President of the United States and accuse him of being racist.
What BP should have done is straight away change their name to Israeli Petroleum. That way the American taxpayer would pick up the bill for cleaning up the gulf. Israeli Petroleum could sail the gulf with impunity, committing acts of piracy, and all criticism could be shrugged off as being anti-semitic.