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Fri 17 Sep, 2010 05:29 am
1. Relationship means to imprision and control your husband.
2. If he's tired and sometimes he's not able to satisfy your needs... your conclusion will be "He doesn't love me anymore."
3. There must be always a connection (fun) in bed because good sex = good marriage.
@dumbwife,
You seem to be on a bit of a mission here, dumbwife!
@msolga,
Just curious: what are the top 3 mistakes that most men make in a relationship?
@msolga,
msolga wrote:
Just curious: what are the top 3 mistakes that most men make in a relationship?
Probably marrying someone who isn't dumb
@msolga,
She sure does
I don't think she's too successful here, though.
@CoastalRat,
Mistake 1: refusing to admit when they make mistakes.
@sozobe,
Ah. Admit mistakes we don't make or we're in denial.
1) expect too much out of the relationship
2) are unwilling to put enough effort into the relationship
3) insist on trying to change the man
It all boils down to unrealistic expectations.
dumbwife and hawkeye are a match made in heaven.
@chai2,
I was going to say the same thing but thought it was too mean, I mean, too true. Jes' waitin' for someone else to come along and say it.
The fact is men are very simple- minded creatures. They have different wavelengths of thinking and usually, they don't think so much like women. Men live in their everyday life simply. When it's time, they go to work. When it's time, they eat. Women however, will pay attention to details but men only want to grasp main ideas. They do put effort in marriage/relationship and they do love you but in their own ways.
I had a hard time in my marriage, was very frustrating.
@dumbwife,
Quote:Men live in their everyday life simply. When it's time, they go to work. When it's time, they eat. Women however, will pay attention to details but men only want to grasp main ideas
Men tend to think concrete, linear and about one thing at a time. THis is why men are so successful in accomplishing missions, where as women get going in to many directions to accomplish one thing well. Women take in a lot more than men do, have a bigger picture, which is why without women to help them men end up putting all their energy into the wrong things.
@chai2,
Quote: dumbwife and hawkeye are a match made in heaven.
A compliment to dumbwife to be sure..
There are lots of meanings behind top 3 mistakes. They are not make to criticise women. I hope English is my native language so I'm able to explain them.
Yes thanks for helping me explain. Knowing your man better and speaking his language, in which you will find it much much easier to get along with men, than painstakingly making/training them to understand you and speak to your heart. Believe it or not, that is a nut mission impossible for most men. Hence, it's not going to work even after you give them everyday long- hour training by nagging, they will eventally find it very hard or just give up to understand you... It's much easier and happier life for men to go for a beer with friends than stay at home and try to understand you.
That's why most women are frustrated in making their men listen to them and end up controlling them or just imprisoning them.
I hope this is enough to explain top 1 mistake.
Uh, what is a 'nut mission'?
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