@joefromchicago,
I understand your point, and it is a good one.
But what good is winning the battle if that will cause you to lose the war. And that is how I see this situation right now. This group does not have to back off. They can go ahead and build their complex in that location. They can win this battle. But the repercussions of their doing that, at this point, will likely be to damage the image of Muslims even more. It depends what their goal is.
If they just want to build a cultural religious complex, to serve the needs of the Muslim community, and to help promote better interfaith relations, it shouldn't matter to them whether the site is two blocks or 20 blocks from Ground Zero. If, in the face of overwhelming public opposition to that particular location, from people whose objections are not based on bigotry or pure Islamophobia, they still feel that they must hold their ground, they will have to live with an awful lot of resulting ill will. It depends what their goals really are.
Personally I don't care where they build their complex.
What bothers me is that on Monday this ad will be plastered on 20 NYC buses, and possibly on more buses and subways in the future.
The controversy has gotten out of hand, and it is giving the bigots and the hate mongers, like the right wing group behind those ads, a field day. The longer the situation continues to boil, the more ammo, like these inflammatory ads, the bigots will bring out.
For most of the people in NYC, who have objections, the issue is not whether this group should build a cultural complex/mosque, but where it should be build. If the location shifts by a few blocks, most people will stop objecting. For them, this is less about bigotry and more about the extremely emotional nature of the land at Ground Zero. It would make sense, to me, if I were one of the developers of this project, to seek some compromise, like a change of location, so the majority of people would be reassured of my goodwill and positive intentions with my proposed enterprise. The developers of this project might or might not come to that same conclusion.
Again, I personally do not care where they build it.