Eva, I'm 41! But thanks for the compliment.
Okay, let me go through sffsa's list as best I can. (Full disclosure: I've been single for over 15 years, and there's probably a reason for that. Don't take any dating advice from me except with a spoonful of salt.)
1.is there a way to approch this without posibly loseing the friend ship
I suggest you have a bottle of wine with her, get just tipsy enough, and then
give her a kiss, tell her you love her, yadda yadda yadda. By "just tipsy enough", I mean tipsy enough to blame your move on the alcohol if she reacts offended, but sober enough that she can accept your attempt as sincere if she wants to say yes. Do not
, however, drink as much as you think it takes to drown your nervosity. Given your anxiety about her, that would most likely turn you into a brute.
2.how big is the cance that she'll be thrilled
Based on your description of how she acts, I think you're likely to succeed. I'd give you an 80:20 chance.
3.should i just email this thread to her
No. That would come across as cowardice, which is a major turnoff.
4.any tips i never done this before this is the first girl i loved like this
As one of the shoe companies here in America likes to say: "Just do it!"