@littlek,
littlek wrote:
. <Sigh> now I sound like a brat.
Lol!!! We all have an inner brat.
Lest anyone think this is just family:
Four of my friends have a birthday around the same time (3 of them on the same day.)
We have all been friends for a minimum of 30 years.
My very close friend S is one of these.
T is another one. T's partner, Sh ALWAYS takes over The Birthday.
S is outraged by this. R is mildly pissed off. T knows that S and R are not so happy with it.
J, the other birthday person, is happy with whatever happens.
Every year, S says she isn't gonna take it any more! She says she is gonna take charge.
Every year she doesn't.
Every year, we hear the moans and gripes and such. Every year, I get mildly irritated by said moans and gripes and the lack of action. However, I have tried to help, and realised that S is happier with the moans than with rocking the boat.
However, S's husband, K, is sick of it!!!
So, now, every year, we have the moans and gripes AND the big S and K fight, where he attacks her for being so passive aggressive.
Every year I want to support K, but I am way too smart to get involved!
It is what it is. Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......