That's neat I must say. I hope you don't think it a satisfactory answer to the question I asked. I'll judge a good chunk of you on that example of slippery tactics.
You can judge away however you like. I’ll keep calling you on it for as long as I’m interested in doing so.
It was an out " very straightfoward, which is hardly slippery, but see it as you wish.
And another good chunk on that one too.
That one wasn’t ‘slippery’. It’s completely straightfoward " the is no conversation, of any sort, where moral labels need to be attached " ever.
I'm not commenting on the sexual side of a person.
Spendius, you really need to be consistent. What is your whole purpose if not to comment on the sexual side of a person posting a thread regarding their sexual side?
Some of the things you said, before I bored of skimming multipages :
-I heard the expression "village bike" a long time ago and it was used by women.
-That's disgraceful Queenie.
-We are talking about you giving yourself to a complete stanger from another country at such short notice that he couldn't even class as an acqaintance.
-I think that is degrading--yes. And I think the vast majority of the population would agree with me. You readily admit the ferocity of your parent's response.
We are talking about you giving yourself to a complete stanger from another country at such short notice that he couldn't even class as an acqaintance.
Admittedly some are debatable in their specific purpose, if not their general purpose.
I missed nothing. What's all this fear stuff. I have no sense of fear. That's about the third time you have mentioned fear.
Without nerves, can you (which is usually reflected by 'do you') : sing in public, public speak, dance when you feel like it, act, approach the most beautiful girl (that you don't know) in a bar while she's surrounded by friends, attempt difficult tasks while other watch, speak your mind to your boss, speak your mind in any circumstance, tell your wife/girlfriend what you really think...etc, etc, etc?
Do you seek to impress or please women (or anyone, bosses etc)? Do you get angry when people disagree with you? Do you resort to swearing, labeling, aggression etc to get your way? All these things, at their heart, are fear based. I'm sure there's more activities that are fear based. Basically, if you worry in any way about what other people think, it is due to fear (from miniscule up to great fear). Fear of rejection, fear of looking the fool, fear of conflict, fear or feeling inadequate, fear of failing, fear of...etc
I can't make head or tail of the rest vik. Of course it matters whether you approve or not. Your input is pointless otherwise.
We disagree. I can have my own opinion/morals/beliefs etc without having
to apply it to another person. I can recognise that they are unique individuals, with a unique total of life experiences, beliefs that were formed in circumstance different to mine...and in fact are likely to have just as many differences in their life, as we have similarities. Why then should my beliefs fit their life?
All this one the one hand and on the other hand is hopeless. It's like walking in a blizzard.
When there's no consistency, it certainly is.