My husband asked–are you putting on weight–what should I do?

I would encourage husbands to try to develop a marriage were their wives would not think twice about talking about their weight, because the wives feel that the couple are a team, and know that their husbands will accept them and be supportive of them even when they do put on weight.

We talk about weight in my marriage, my wife tells me exactly what the scales says, sometimes I ask, normally she brings it up herself. This kind of intimacy does not develop right away, it takes a few years into the marriage for many, but it is the way to go. Intimacy is being a part of each others inner world, for women who obsess about their weight (my wife is one who does) keeping their men out of this part of who they are is pushing away intimacy.

1. Size 2? JeezusHChriiist! Get another bag of chips and eat 'em right in front of his face!



(Linkat - don't forget the French Onion Dip with those chips.) :wink:

did you gain weight over the years squinney? I never noticed. I just thought you became more beautiful with time and now you're saying you got heavier? Huh.

did I get heavier? balder?

I just realized something. The title ends with "what should I do," and nobody's quite answered that for you.

What you should do, is bring him a cold beer and sandwich, then give him oral sex. Then bring another cold beer.

I just realized something. The title ends with "what should I do," and nobody's quite answered that for you.

What you should do, is bring him a cold beer and sandwich, then give him oral sex. Then bring another cold beer.

Bi-Polar Bear wrote:

did you gain weight over the years squinney? I never noticed. I just thought you became more beautiful with time and now you're saying you got heavier? Huh.

did I get heavier? balder?

Now there's a man who knows what to say.

Chai wrote:

There's one of your problems hackeye, you don't see connections.

Ya, for instance I don't see where Hawkeye's problem's according to Chai is relevant to the thread topic, but maybe in in your mind it is. Does this mean that you are done with the topic?? Do you have anything to offer besides drive bys?

I just realized something. The title ends with "what should I do," and nobody's quite answered that for you.

What you should do, is bring him a cold beer and sandwich, then give him oral sex. Then bring another cold beer.

Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

I just realized something. The title ends with "what should I do," and nobody's quite answered that for you.

What you should do, is bring him a cold beer and sandwich, then give him oral sex. Then bring another cold beer.

You're slipping.

She needs to post pictures here so that we can determine if she is fat.

I don't have a scale, however, I do have a doctor's appt next week - I'll see if I feel brave and post my weight.

Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

I just realized something. The title ends with "what should I do," and nobody's quite answered that for you.

What you should do, is bring him a cold beer and sandwich, then give him oral sex. Then bring another cold beer.

You're slipping.

She needs to post pictures here so that we can determine if she is fat.

Can you believe it? How dumb is can a guy be? My husband really really asked this question. We have been married over 10 years - he should know better. I immediately told him - you never ask a woman such a question. He acted all surprised and said, "What, I just noticed and thought I would ask." He tried to make up for it later by saying how nice my hair cut looked. I told him that doesn't make up for it and then he went on to say how much he loved me - blah, blah.

I think drawn and quartered is not quite severe enough - what do you think?

Linkat wrote:

but shouldnt i let her know?

Do you imagine that she doesn't realize she's gained weight? I'm sure she'll be grateful.




Oh really OGIONIK dear? Thanks for telling me, I hadn't noticed.

Well, I wasn't going to mention it either baby, but your head is completely up your ass.