makemeshiver33 wrote:There is nothing wrong with you, and you shouldn't feel like a looser because you have remained a virgin, actually....you should be proud of it. Not many people can say that....]
I agree with this statement. I was a virgin way past my high school years. I didn't feel like a "loser". I just hadn't found that "special guy" yet.
the few, the proud
Giving your virginity to your wife on your wedding night would be the greatest present. Be proud.
Re: the few, the proud
alex240101 wrote:Giving your virginity to your wife on your wedding night would be the greatest present. Be proud.
Not for this wife. I think past experience is a good thing for a relationship.
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alex240101 wrote:Giving your virginity to your wife on your wedding night would be the greatest present. Be proud.
F**K that. What's the point? So he can suck in bed? Sex is part of a relationship, not a bonus to marriage.
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Green Witch wrote:alex240101 wrote:Giving your virginity to your wife on your wedding night would be the greatest present. Be proud.
Not for this wife. I think past experience is a good thing for a relationship.
You got that right sister.
Thinking back on some of the guys I've experienced, and thinking what it would have been like if we had never had sex, clicked and fell in love, then married....I'd blow my brains out.
Now wait a second.
mrhunt wrote: I used to do some pretty dark (Illegal) Stuff online and For a long time i had some enemys and Had to stay anonamus......"Mr Hunt" Just stuck and ive been using it for a while now.....
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That might qualify you as a loser. I probably wouldn't want to date someone with such a history.
You are not a loser. And you know what - some women may actually find you more appealing because of it. You actually have values and that can be a difficult thing to find in a man. Some women, however, may not like the idea of being more experienced, but I think more women do not judge so harshly. Most women will be more concerned on what sort of person you are than whether you have sex with several partners.
Here is a question for you - what you would think of a woman at 21 that was a virgin? Is she a loser? If not, then why would a man be a loser. It seems more a question that you haven't met a woman that you felt close enough to - to have a close relationship. The drinking/drugs thing would only appeal to a woman that was a party girl - anyone else shouldn't care. In fact, most women that I know wouldn't be interested in a guy that did drugs any way.
boomerang wrote:Now wait a second.
mrhunt wrote: I used to do some pretty dark (Illegal) Stuff online and For a long time i had some enemys and Had to stay anonamus......"Mr Hunt" Just stuck and ive been using it for a while now.....
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That might qualify you as a loser. I probably wouldn't want to date someone with such a history.
I'd refer to it as a colourfull past or checkered history.
Maybe, maybe not.
There isn't much that is actually illegal on the internet. By describing it as "dark" and having "enemies" I don't think he was violating copyrights.
dadpad wrote:boomerang wrote:Now wait a second.
mrhunt wrote: I used to do some pretty dark (Illegal) Stuff online and For a long time i had some enemys and Had to stay anonamus......"Mr Hunt" Just stuck and ive been using it for a while now.....
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That might qualify you as a loser. I probably wouldn't want to date someone with such a history.
I'd refer to it as a colourfull past or checkered history.
Depends on what it was. If he was into kiddie porn like our friend Chai, then that's a little more than checkered.
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Green Witch wrote:alex240101 wrote:Giving your virginity to your wife on your wedding night would be the greatest present. Be proud.
Not for this wife. I think past experience is a good thing for a relationship.
I tried it both ways. GW is definitely right.
Linklat wrote:
Quote:You are not a loser. And you know what - some women may actually find you more appealing because of it.
We are all right, it doesn't make you a loser in anyway....
But the pervert in me is wanting to say..."Man, if I was single and I had the opportunity to have a younger male that was a virgin, I'd have some fun!"
Quote:Older women, are beautiful lovers
Older women, they understand
I've been around some, and I have discovered
That older women know just how to please a man.
(Verse)
Everybody seems to love those younger women
From eighteen on up to twenty-five
Well I love 'em too, but I'm tellin' you
Learnin' how to really love, takes a little time.
(CHORUS)
(Verse)
So baby don't you worry about growin' older
Those young girls ain't got nothin' on you
'Cause it takes some livin', to get good at givin'
And givin' love is just where you could teach them a thing or two.
(Chorus)
You'd train him right good, eh MMS :-D
Quote:You'd train him right good, eh MMS
Awwww.....not me persay, but I just said what alot of us were probably thinking...lmao
I'd give him some lessons, but I smoke.
I light up right after. It's like my dessert
I'm sorry MrHunt! Please know that I'm only joking around. I think I'm a comedian sometimes and I occationally get carried away.
Seriously, you're not a loser. You're still very young and you have plenty of time.
Hell, I wish I was still a virgin at 21!
Boy, I took a beating on this one chumps. I still persist his virginity is the ultimate gift. A good healthy sexual relationship is something that can be shared, explored, developed, and enjoyed together. What a mate brings into the bedroom has some bearing, but, no where as enough to outweigh giving your soulmate your virginity.
