Is cyber-sex, internet porn, chat ect...cheating?

she said I would get upset, enraged even. She is mistaking me with her previous relationships I imagine. That she kept it a secret to keep from upseting me.

I don't know why having a friend would upset me like that ... even a male friend. It's just all the sneaking around that tells me that it wasn't all about freindship.

I mean she was dressing better lately, and she bought new underwear. Things were starting to add up .. at least from my perspective.

She was really mad at the accusations, but as we talked it through ... most of my suspisious were true.

Huh. I can really see that going either way. If she had a previous relationship where the guy got mad if she had male friends, even if they were platonic, I can see that she would really be uncomfortable about telling you (even though she totally, totally should have), even if there was no hanky-panky.

Underwear doesn't necessarily mean anything. We wimmins DO buy underwear now and then. Clothes, too.

But it could all add up, yeah.

What are your plans, if any?

Well, we're starting over I guess. Coming clean ... but we're also addressing what may have caused environment in the first place.

It's a toss up so far ... but it is still all raw and painful right now.

oh, and I guess we've come to understand each others definition of infidelity.

... it's all about the level of emotional involvement and deception.

I found this browsing around ... I'm sure it will be interesting for this forum.

Women and Cyber-Infidelity

hey i think any intimacy with someone other than your partner could be described as cheating
just flirting for fun is ok
i guess theres a fine line somewhere

I agree tasslecrab and welcome to A2K.

i kindof believe it is but i'm only 13 so you may not want to take my opinion. but ive done cyber before so you know. i will never do the real thing until im married or at least until i knoe i have someone who REALLY cares for me.
hope this helps.

-Tatugurl03