@spendius,
Me, sweet? Some would shake their heads no.
I figure we all have annoying traits.
I haven't studied about nightmares much, not being in the psychology or psychiatry or brain chemistry fields, though I read about those, but at least some I know who have had very troubling ones have had some real life serious fearsome experience.
I do wake up about once every six months sure a spider is at hand - but I call that a phantasm, possibly incorrectly. It's not a dream but a very quick sensation that jolts me awake. When it used to happen, I'd get up and try to find the spider. Now I figure it's the phantasm again and just take a cursory look around.
This probably has to do with being raised around black widows, and then remodelling my studio in our old garage, which had black widows, and moving to New Mexico, which has black widows.
I didn't see one here in New Mexico until about ten days ago, and it was in my everloving kitchen, where I finally decided to clean around the back door. There were some small white nests where the wall meets the floor imperfectly (and needs to be grouted), and more nests in the indian bells I had hanging on the door knob. That'll teach me for not looking there - I recognized the nests. It was a daymare. I brought the bells to the sink and a big black widow came climbing up the sink side several times.
Well, adrenalin is a good thing. This not so sweet person became a spider killer.
I won't give a link for black widows, or y'all have nightmares.