@cybershoq13,
i married the most beautiful brunette stripper in atlanta 9 years ago and if you can find one that doesnt party, they make the best ingredient in a long and zesty sex life. she was no gold digger, i was an iron worker that was in love with her from the first time i saw her. she mellowed out , started cutting hair and owned a tanning salon and i would get my hair cut twice a week and get burned in the tanning beds just to see her. so once you find the one. only one will do. no matter which side of the relationship you are on. never give up!