stuh505 wrote:Chai wrote:Trying to imagine a man saying "my wife had such a knee jerk reaction when I suggested she have a tubal ligation. She just said "NO!" I could tell she had never given any thought to this before, and she said this without thinking and considering.
I bet that's a pretty common response...after all when Jazzie thought about going off the drugs her thought was for her husband to get the surgery done and not herself.
That's because common sense tells you that vasectomies are a whole lot easier, less expensive and less risk than a vasectomy.
For years it's just been assumed the woman would go ahead and "get her tubes tied" because the poor man couldn't deal with a snip snip.
For our entire reproductive lives, and beyond, women get poked, prodded, looked up into, scraped, body parts smashed in a vice, probes stuck up us and more. I hardly think it a knee jerk reaction to suggest the male take this little step toward responsibility of his own reproductive system.
I've never heard of anyone dying during a vasectomy. I had a coworker/friend die on the table of a doctors office when he sliced her abdominal aorta and she bled out in literally seconds. Never woke up.
She went in because her husband could stand the thought of being cut down there.
Jazzie has been taking BC drugs and is over 40, apparantly taking them for some time. I'm pretty sure she didn't wake up one morning and say "I decided to stop, I just thought of it this very second"! This has been on her mind for a while, she has a daily reminder. In the meantime, Mr. Jazzie has probably (and I say probably) never given doing his part a thought beyond "Hell no, no one's touching my jewels"!
Stuh, no offense, but I've probably had more invasive **** done to my lady parts in the past year than you have had done to you boys in your entire life.
Give Jazzie a break.
I would have thought that by this day and age men would be a little more enlightened about their part in all this.
I know Vickys husband wishes he had gone in to get cut rather than what happened. He was left with a 4 year old child (who never saw his mother again after she went to work that day)