cyclo wrote :
Quote:By convincing members of societies around the world who are prone to terrorism, that our way of doing things is superior to that offered by the terrorists - and the use of force is the terrorists' way.
ican replied :
Quote:I don't know anyone who knows how to do that.
isn't that what britain did in northern ireland ?
they tried for decades "to bring peace by force" , i believe - but it did not work .
finally , britain realized that by working with the opposing parties they might stand a chance of achieving a period of reletive calm and eventually achieve peace .
this isn't necessarily the peace britain and the orange men wanted initially .
it seems that both sides realized that they could not have all they wanted , that they would have to negotiate and settle for less than they might have wanted .
i'm sure that there might still be some hard feelings on both sides , but for now the peace seems to be holding .
(on a BBC re-broadcast recently , british ex-politiciians , journalists and scholars debated tony blair's legacy . while most could find fault with some of his actions , they pretty well all gave him credit for finishing the peace proces in northern ireland) .
i think the U.S. is actually on the right path by calling for a (peace - eventually) conference/meeting between all the nations of the middle-east .
my hope is that the U.S. doesn't throw in the towel and says : "it doesn't work , they want to continue fighting " , if there is little (no) achievement .
for it to work , a lot of patience will be required and setbacks will have to be accepted as normal .
this isn't like striking a deal between two consenting parties .
i think many of us have in the past pointed out the difference of striking a deal the american way - "let's do it - we can play another round of golf once we've settled things " and the VERY SLOW negotiating process in the middle east and much of asia : introductions , many cups of tea , long breaks , more cups of tea and perhaps eventually a few words will be exchanged ... and tomorrow we might meet again .
(i think i posted some time ago about the british writer - he wrote "prince of the marshes" - who was one of the interim administrators in iraq and now lives in afghanistan .
he said during an interview on CCB that it takes him about half-an-hour to get from his front-office to his back-office - perhaps 200 feet - because he has to stop and exchange pleasantries with all the other people before he can move on .
and these are people he is friendly with ! if you want to find out how difficult the negotiations were with the "not so friendly" chieftains in iraq , i recommend you read his book .
this may seem strange to us , but it is the middle-eastern way - it's the oriental way !) .
hbg