@edgarblythe,
Congrats om getting to the point of submitting your work. I feel that it's only a matter of time and perseverance that an acceptance will occur. The introspection and new perspective the process provides has to be invaluable.
I've silently read this thread regularly and view your story as a trailblazer for me. As I've mentioned before I have a similar interest in writing a semi-autobiographical work. However, even if it doesn't, it seems that the benefits far outweigh the temporary negatives.
As background, I've started the process. Due to lack of discipline, I'm nowhere nearly as far along as you. My life has actually recently gotten more interesting in the last 10 months. Met my life partner and we'll be traveling around the world together and settling down in a new house being snowbirds in so. Fl as well as lakeside in upstate NY. Gardens everywhere...but..I digress.
I think the story has gotten much more interesting..and not just to me. During this journey, we'll be 2 months in NZ part of which will be on a vineyard and a month in Africa that'll include an( ecological) safari in national game reserve park plus a trip to Victoria Falls.