@edgarblythe,
Don't let that bother you too much! My political and religious beliefs are 180 degrees different from all my siblings, and that's been going on for most of my life!
It's difficult to be the first trend-setter of any family, and know how difficult it can be to remain "close" when the two major issues of our lives go separate ways.
It's been a struggle. I used to be a conservative early in my life when they believed in small government and self-sufficiency. They're no longer that party, and turned into monsters who no longer want to help other Americans over the emphasis on defense and wars.
Even universal health care that I've advocated for so long for our country is now the law of the land, but Obama hasn't done a good job in its legislation (rules and regulations to control cost).
Can't win em all!