What Are The Chances?

How old are you exit?

Have you discussed your problems with your mother?

I am 14. But don't look at that as whory. I'm really not, it was the first time I have ever done something like that. And I feel ashamed now.

material girl wrote:

How old are you exit?

I am 14. But don't look at that as whory. I'm really not, it was the first time I have ever done something like that. And I feel ashamed now.

Miller wrote:

Have you discussed your problems with your mother?

No, I haven't and I'm not going to unless for some odd reason I turn out to be pregnant.

I am 14. But don't look at that as whory. I'm really not, it was the first time I have ever done something like that. And I feel ashamed now.

A keen feeling of mental unease, as of annoyance or embarrassment, caused by failure, disappointment, or a disconcerting event.

The primary risk of oral sex involves coming in direct contact with vaginal or seminal fluids that can transmit HIV or sexually transmitted infections. While not as risky as unprotected anal or vaginal sex, it is still possible to get STIs from having unprotected oral sex. The risk to contract HIV and other STIs is much lower for the receiver than the person performing the act. For the person performing the act, the risk of transmission is much lower if gums are healthy and if semen or vaginal fluids do not enter the mouth. However, such preventative measures aren't always enough to prevent infection since you may have cuts or ulcers in your mouth that you may not be aware of. There is no pregnancy risk associated with oral sex - women cannot get pregnant by swallowing semen.

Herpes can be transmitted from genitals to mouth or mouth to genitals during unprotected oral sex.

While not always listed as an oral sex risk, experts have seen a recent increase in the number of gonorrhea infections of the throat. Exposure to vaginal or seminal fluids infected with gonorrhea are the cause of these infections

Using effective barrier methods such as condoms or latex dental dams. In the absence of barrier methods, men should avoid ejaculating in their partners' mouths.
Being aware of sores, discharge, or unpleasant odors from your partner's genitals - signs to avoid oral sex.
Not flossing and brushing teeth before oral sex. It might give you better breath, but it may also tear the lining of the mouth, increasing the exposure to viruses.
Avoiding aggressive and deep thrusting in oral sex, which can damage throat tissues and increase susceptibility for throat-based gonorrhea, herpes and abrasions

It's not like I didn't enjoy it. It would have been a scrap-book worthy if I would have never thought that I could be pregnant. We were motivated because we love each other and we want to make each other feel good, not because of what other teens are doing it at this age.

And lets add one more detail...

Even with a blowjob, use protection! You can get an STD in your mouth...so remember that the next time you go down on your boyfriend. He may be the same age, but its a practice to live by...at some point you'll change boyfriends and not know his history.

Let me add this, that everyone you come into intimate, unprotected sexual contact with, you are basically having sex with every partner they have had, and their partners and so on for the last 5 years....so thats a big risk you take without protection.

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The primary risk of oral sex involves coming in direct contact with vaginal or seminal fluids that can transmit HIV or sexually transmitted infections. While not as risky as unprotected anal or vaginal sex, it is still possible to get STIs from having unprotected oral sex. The risk to contract HIV and other STIs is much lower for the receiver than the person performing the act. For the person performing the act, the risk of transmission is much lower if gums are healthy and if semen or vaginal fluids do not enter the mouth. However, such preventative measures aren't always enough to prevent infection since you may have cuts or ulcers in your mouth that you may not be aware of. There is no pregnancy risk associated with oral sex - women cannot get pregnant by swallowing semen.

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Herpes can be transmitted from genitals to mouth or mouth to genitals during unprotected oral sex.

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While not always listed as an oral sex risk, experts have seen a recent increase in the number of gonorrhea infections of the throat. Exposure to vaginal or seminal fluids infected with gonorrhea are the cause of these infections

Protective measures:

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Using effective barrier methods such as condoms or latex dental dams. In the absence of barrier methods, men should avoid ejaculating in their partners' mouths.
Being aware of sores, discharge, or unpleasant odors from your partner's genitals - signs to avoid oral sex.
Not flossing and brushing teeth before oral sex. It might give you better breath, but it may also tear the lining of the mouth, increasing the exposure to viruses.
Avoiding aggressive and deep thrusting in oral sex, which can damage throat tissues and increase susceptibility for throat-based gonorrhea, herpes and abrasions

Your session of mutual masterbation sounds to me like more of an ordeal than a wonderful, scrap-book worthy, passionate interlude. I don't know whether you and your b/f were motivated by curiousity or by a yen to be One Up on the other kids in your age group--or even whether you and your boyfriend had the same motivation.

Well I should have started my period 4 days ago...

I guess I am pregnant, huh?

Well I just want to be sure before I tell my parents...
But I'm not having a child.
If I get her to get me birth control, will that cause me not to be pregnant anymore? I'm thinking that's right. But that's my plan so far.
And I'm getting my cousin to go and get me a pregnancy test


Everyone is going to think badly of me now..