Should I expose a cheater?

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My advice on what to do? Nothing at this point - put this episode behind you and move on with your life. What do you hope to gain by telling his family?

(His poor wife should know the kind of man she is married to)

i think he has other girls on the go. Because if they are so in love then who gave him the STD.

Chlamydia is the most frequently reported bacterial sexually transmitted infection in the United States. More than 650,000 cases were reported in 1999, and three of every four reported cases occurred in persons under age 25. Under-reporting is substantial because most people with chlamydia are not aware of their infections and do not seek testing. An estimated 3 million Americans are infected with chlamydia each year. Chlamydia is so common in young women that, by age 30, 50% of sexually active women have evidence that they have had chlamydia at some time during their lives.

Chlamydia is more often than not a silent infection. Most people with chlamydia do not seek treatment because they do not know they are infected. He might have easily gotten it from his wife. Why do you assume it came from someone outside the marriage?

Chlamydia is more often than not a silent infection. Most people with chlamydia do not seek treatment because they do not know they are infected. He might have easily gotten it from his wife. Why do you assume it came from someone outside the marriage?

No, that's what you think she will gain. Knowledge that her husband is a class A jerk. She will also gain the opportunity to be tested and treated for chlamydia. What do you hope to gain?

I'm not sure if i am gonna go through with all this, i am still hurt i guess. I want him to hurt as much as me thats all. Why is he getting away with it. I can't trust men now and i feel that all men are cheats. I felt like his sex toy.

In women, untreated infection can spread into the uterus or fallopian tubes and cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). This happens in up to 40 percent of women with untreated chlamydia. PID can cause permanent damage to the fallopian tubes, uterus, and surrounding tissues. The damage can lead to chronic pelvic pain, infertility, and potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy outside the uterus). Women infected with chlamydia are up to five times more likely to become infected with HIV, if exposed.

If you run into him occasionally, you might do humanity a favor and let him know that he should get his chlamydia treated so that he doesn't continue to spread an STD.

I think your ex-husband has to take some of the responsibility for your feeling that all men are cheats.

I'm guessing that you've been enticed into at least two separate relationships with two charming men and been badly burned twice.

I thought you told him you were divorced? Are you then never-married?