FreeDuck wrote:Foxfyre wrote:
I don't understand why more people aren't rejecting the attempt to use words, phrases, imagery, etc. to separate us by race, ethnicity, etc. and rather demand that we all celebrate our individual contributions to the human race, but that we are all part of it.
I get really really tired of the huge chips some people carry on their shoulder regarding all sorts of things. Sometimes I think it is better to resist that instead of capitulating to it.
This is the legacy left to us by our forefathers. We just have to work through it and let enough time pass to where we can get past the sensitivity. As it is, it was just 50 years ago that it would have been perfectly acceptable to hang a black man from a tree for whistling at a white woman. There's just no way you can go from that to brotherly love in the span of less than half a century. We just need to breath and keep talking.
I can appreciate that, but it isn't just in the area of racism that makes this phenomena a problem. "Tarbaby", for instance, isn't a biggie for me or part of my every day vocabulary by any means, but it was a particularly poignant graphic illustration, coined by a black man whom I was raised to regard quite fondly. It was in no way intended to be racist in any way. I don't personally 'need' the word to express myself, but I resent the ignorant making it into something that it never was and heaping condemnation on those who use the term correctly.
Those with the chips on their shoulders, no matter what race, ethnic group, gender, etc. etc. etc. they are, are a large component of the ones who keep prejudice and all the ugly 'isms alive and well and in the front of everybody's mind. And I think that's what is preventing us from working through it.
The battle for equality has been won on almost all fronts. Of course racism, sexism, etc. etc. etc. still exists but it is no longer acceptable in general society. Yes we should be ever vigilant to recognize and correct pockets of injustice and/or inequality that still exist. Of course there are words that are intended to be offensive and these should not be condoned by anybody when used in ways that can hurt or maliciously demean others.
But we need to be celebrating the equality and justice achieved and talking about that and stop re-creating the climate of 'us' and 'them' by getting offended and/or irate at innocuous use of words that we personally don't like. That's the way to keep soothing the sensitivities and making the inequalities and negative -isms an interesting component of negative history left behind instead of being billed as the present reality. Let's focus on that for awhile.