snood wrote:Well, I know of some people who would tell you that being african-american doesn't grant you any special insight or perspective or voice about issues specifically involving african americans. I had someone on this forum tell me that being an african american man gave me no better idea about how african american men are regarded in america. Still trips me out to this day...
Lash wrote:If all blacks had exactly the same opinion, it would be valid.
This incredible exchange, where a white woman is telling a black man that she can speak with as much authority for the black viewpoint as he can, reminds me of an actual conversation I had a long time ago in a bar.
We were still in college. Five or six of us were all settled in and round a booth, and one of the women started talking about the pain of childbirth.
"It's not that painful", one of the guys said authoritatively.
"Howard, what do you mean it's not painful? Of course it's painful, how would you know?"
With a straight face and complete seriousness, Howard said, "Like my mother said, if it really hurt that much, women wouldn't have children." He was utterly serious.
One of the women told him that she wasn't in the mood for his crap, and a brouhaha ensured.
To this day, I always think of Howard's comments as the perfect example of a person embarrassing themselves beyond repair. I really didn't think I could find an example that came close-until I read Lash's remarks.
Yet I find several posters-all white-agreeing with this Lash individual. And there is the disturbing possiblility that some of them might be actually sober.
How can anyone who grew up in America even entertain the possibilitly that if you are born black in America, your life experiences will in any way be comparable to those of a white person? How can anyone ignore the the innumerable insults, putdowns and patterns of exclusion which, until 20 years or so ago, were considered normal? Those things still exist today, of course, but they now are increasingly considered unacceptable, and are increasingly likely to get the practitioners in trouble. Like fired.
Let's face it. If a black person walked into a room full of white people even into the 1980's, he would get looks. Many people would start giggling and make motions which would clearly indicate they found his presence a matter of amusement. Does anyone seriously think black people didn't notice these looks, or expect to get them when they first came in? Does anyone truly think black people did not hear or sense the jokes or comments being made, even when some effort was made to conceal them? Does anyone think it is even possible for people who have gone through this to NOT forge a bond and understanding with the others who have experienced these things?
Yet we have a whole pack of white people on this forum seriously maintaining just that. They feel that having lived through and experienced these things in the past, and living through them to a mercifully reduced amount now, in no way entitles the black person to maintain he has an insight into black issues which white people do not have. Indeed, these white people believe they don't even have to
try particularly hard to understand these things-this understanding supposedly comes to them naturally.
Has anyone noticed that despite having well known and popular black posters on A2K, Snood is the only one who posts on any racial issues? We have just witnesses a perfect example why. How is any conversation possible between blacks and whites on racial issues possible if the white posters are going to adopt such a comically arrogant stance?
I really can't believe Snood is still posting on this forum. Not after this. Snood should check his family ancestry-no question Job is there.