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Quote:quote="spendius"]Becksie wrote-
Quote:What's this "too American" stuff? Do I detect a little whiff of anti-Americanism these days Spendius? Actually, I wouldn't be surprised. With what's going on all over the globe and America's role in it - there's really no defense to make.
What's going on all over the globe is more a mitigating factor to my tendency to anti-Americanism which derives from experiencing the company of a few typical examples which was tiresome to put it at the least.
I might just have been unlucky but from the description you give of the "nuclear physicist" (WHAT!!!!???) and her companions it would seem you have found the same thing.
I sometimes feel that the phenomenon might be traceable to the driving motor of business enterprise within the soul of America and thus at the soul of the American educational system which leads it to be selling a product; that product being ,of course, the state of grace in which a bunch of very average people can feel better about themselves. Especially the Mummies and Daddies.
Yes. I agree. There also seems to be a very different attitude toward and valuation of common courtesy and manners. Sometimes I think it's because there are just so many people in the US and everyone is so busy achieving and making money - they don't have time to notice the other people around them. I remember the last time I went shopping for clothes in America. The girl at the cash register talked on her cell phone the whole time and never said a word to me. She gestured at the total instead of telling me what it was and continued her conversation as she put my stuff in the bag and I left. That would never happen here. Although a guy in the shop the other day said that where he lives (Essex) it's much less friendly than here (Somerset). I think I'm just lucky I happened to end up in a very courteous and friendly part of the UK. I mean when you pay for your groceries here they say, "Thank you, my love." I wish I could say it back, I really do, but it just doesn't come naturally. Do you guys say that where you live?
Quote:Notice on these very threads the reticence displayed by the English concerning their educational achievements and compare it to that in the posts of many Americans. Does everybody in America have a Master's degree and "major" in things and use strange,vaguely flattering terms like sophomore and semester and phi beta shitehouse. Do you need to be an Associate Professor to empty the wastepaper baskets?
Spendius - that's just because a degree in America is so damn common place - it's not even thought of as bragging anymore. The only time I ever tell anyone what my educational background is is when I'm asked, "What degrees do you have?" And as a matter of fact, I think you yourself did ask me that very question a long time ago. I answered you- what are you going to hold that against me forever?
College (university) can be fun as hell in America. That's why people talk about it all the time. I had the most fun four years of my life (so far anyway). Damn, I could tell you some stories - but I don't want to brag or anything.
You guys brag about your MBE's. Every time I go into the house of a guy who has one - the picture of him all dressed up in a suit with his tophat and his wife in a pretty hat is most prominently displayed. I also note that the educated elite here are very open about their educational credentials and speak of them in very "cut glass accents". In a lot of ways there's just as much snobbism and classism. So don't act like your culture is so modest. You're not shy at all about displaying your intellectualism. You must have picked it up somewhere. Just relax - why can't people talk about what they want to?
Quote:Many Americans on these threads are continually dropping hints, often with a "CLANG!!", and some are not above blurting it out directly.
Some Americans are more direct than others. Coming from NJ, I think that's a good thing. I can't stand when people beat around the bush and call it "polite". I appreciate when people just come out and say stuff. Why does it bother you so much that people talk about what they are happy about, or proud about, or find enriching in their lives? You should be happy for them.
Quote:I have no objection of course. As long as I can metaphorically-
Quote: turn the mower on and drown them out.
You can on a2k.
Quote:Even the interesting Americans one sees on TV or who's words one reads one suspects might not be quite so interesting at other times.
And what - you are? Interesting
all the time, huh? That's not cultural, that's an individual personality trait and is totally subjective based on individual perception.
Quote:(Any chance of the NP's phone number).
I knew you were going to ask that. I was just waiting....
I'll ask her. Because I know you just want to talk to her as another intellectual, right? Because Spendius - she's about fifty years old, short iron gray hair, she's about as round as she is tall, and she talks like a man. I hate to stereotype - but let's put it this way - I don't think she'd be as interested in a phone call from you as she might be in one from me. (But she's not my type - at all!!!- so don't worry - I won't cut in on your action.

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Quote:A Lady NP living alone in a mansion and receiving lady visitors on the terrace oblivious to an exploited gardner toiling away on a lawn mower, that fiendish implement of torture, is an experience I haven't yet had the good fortune to tryout.
I sometimes think my whole life has been a set of trials leading up to such a door. Tell her that will you Becksie.
I'll tell her. The funny thing is, the two visiting ladies sounded like airheads. They kept saying things like, "Like really? You're like kidding. Like, no way!!!" I think she had her eye on one of them- you know how sometimes you just go for the total opposite of what you are? I think that might have been the case.
Quote:Check her out with a Geiger counter and, if you can, her age and a rating on a 1-3 scale for personability.)
Sweetheart - you might like her- just because we have such opposite taste and I so totally didn't like her. But are you into masculinity in your women- because that was pretty much her defining trait- right down to her voice.
Quote:"Work" and "worked" in such close proximity is considered a solescism in English letters.
Excuse me, sorry about that. Now I'll have to go look "solescism" up so I'll know what you're talking about.
Quote:I quite like Tom Petty. He has one or two decent songs. I saw him three times providing back-up for Bob a fair while back on that tour with the four well built black ladies any of whom Salammbo might have matured into in more auspicious circumstances.
I love Petty and Dylan together. I saw them together too. In Philly - quite a long time ago. When they had that whole Traveling Wilbury's tour.
Quote:I didn't like that song though. As you say- taste.
Yep - to each his own.
I know that's exactly what he'd do. But I'd like to see which body builder he fancies himself to look like.
Mathos - I don't have any rocks to get off. I don't pick on anyone, and certainly not Spendius. Maybe a little tonight though. I have to admit I was just waiting for him to ask about the single nuclear physicist. It reminds me of the time in college when my boyfriend was making me jealous by hanging out with this new girl, and as soon as he turned his back, she asked me if I swang both ways. I said, "No, but I'm so glad you asked me that," and I proceeded to immediately let my boyfriend know that his new crush had a crush on me. It was so satisfying...