I could have sworn his servant's name was something else - can you believe I can't remember what right now - even though I typed it over and over again when we were writing that story last summer. What was it - or are you going to make me google it and/or go to the library?
Oh yeah, that reminds me - I'm trying to win this three day week-end to the Abbey Inn "within the grounds of the imposing ruins of Byland Abbey near Rievaulx Abbey and Helmsley Castle" - which they say is the ideal base for a short break to the North York Moors. All I have to do is answer this question correctly:
"To the north of Byland Abbey is a national trail, more than a hundred miles long, that takes in places of interest around the North York Moors National Park. What is the name of this trail?" (I need the answer by the end of September to have my entry in by the closing date).
Again, I could google it, but I thought since you seem to be such a fount of information about Yorkshire (even though you don't live there) you'd be able to give me a quick answer. Or if you want the trip for yourself, I can give you the info as to where to send your answer. Hey wait a minute - I think I better google. It would be just like you to give me the wrong answer so you could win the trip for yourself. Forget I asked.... It's so funny - but Yorkshire has come up again and again in the last few days for me - although not with you. It used to be that you were the only one I ever talked about Yorkshire with - now it's all these women I'm talking about it with.
And Spendius - sad to say - but everything gets boring if you do it too much - even things like eating and sleeping. It's called "desensitization"- (I know you knew that - I'm just reminding you.

). After a certain amount of exposure - a stimulus just doesn't elicit the same emotions anymore - things that were scary at first are no longer scary after a while. What might have started out funny - isn't funny and just starts seeming stupid. And what might have seemed fascinating and interesting just grows to be kind of boring and sad after a while. I think the only way to avoid becoming burnt out on something is to either receive some sort of reward that makes the monotony and boredom worthwhile or to practice moderation- mete a stimulus out in small doses so that it doesn't become predictable and tiring or lacking in novelty, so that one still looks forward to it.
*You want to write the Valmont/Isabella story again? That'd be a rewarding stimulus for me...

I had fun doing that.