okie wrote:Xingu, thanks for the picture of your neighborhood. Blatham, thanks for your bit of history, and after thinking about this a bit more, I would submit that every bit as much discrimination exists along coastlines or big cities as in rural areas. In more crowded conditions, the hostilities may tend to manifest themselves in a worse way it seems to me. In big cities, people don't even make eye contact on the street. In smaller communities, I think people are friendlier. I admit smaller communities may be slow to accept newcomers, but I think this may apply regardless of race or religion, but over time, if the newcomers prove themselves as good citizens, they are accepted.
I will add an observation here, totally honest, but one that puts me at risk for criticism because I am entering politically correct terrain here. When I was in the Army many moons ago, the black folks from big cities had a much bigger chip on their shoulders than those from rural areas. This observation and perception has been confirmed by other guys I've talked with. Black guys from Chicago or other large cities, not too friendly. Black guys from rural areas of Mississippi, Alabam, etc. great guys. As blatham explains, generalizations are not accurate across the board, so that is what I am doing here, generalizing.
To explain here, I am white, but never grew up around black folks, but my parents were not prejudiced at all, and my first experiences with blacks was mostly in the Army, so I was sensitive to it there. My very best drill sargeant in skill and caring about his troops was a black guy, and many I served with were the best. We are all human beings with our own personalities and I personally think its time to become more color blind.
Nice post.
I came from a, well, 'not-so-rich' neighborhood in Houston that was pretty ethnically diverse; we had white, black, asian, hispanic, you name it, all jumbled together. What did we have in common? Economics, which was about it. But my parents' families came from small towns, so I have spent a goodish portion of my life in rural America as well.
One of the major differences in the country vs. the city is in the pressures formed by population density. I, unlike many people, don't consider racism to be an inherently evil position; I think it is a genetic holdover from the times when Humans could only trust members of their own tribe, during times when you couldn't afford not to be suspicious of the next town over with all the red-headed wild folk. Hell, throughout the majority of history, everyone who looks different has been an enemy for most people. So, to have come as far as we have in just a few hundred years is a gigantic step.
But, when people are living in close proximity to one another, and economic conditions are tough, I feel there is a real tendency for racial divisions to grow stronger, as people seek those who are like them - and the easiest method is to find someone who looks like you - for support. This is of course exacerbated by hot-headed youths who are smart enough to see how crappy their situation is, but not smart enough to see how hard work and personal responsibility can get them out of it.
We had gangs where I grew up; hispanic and black gangs. The white kids didn't really form gangs per say, but we looked out for each other; hell, we had to. Reverse discrimination was a fact of life as a kid in a multicultural environment; it's tough to get picked for basketball or other sports when all the other kids are convinced that you are slower and weaker because you're white.
This post kind of rambles, but I guess I can see where the 'chip' on people's shoulder comes from when you grow up in the city. It's tough being a kid and worrying about violent situations in your own neighborhood; there is a lot of pressure to show that you are tough enough to handle it, to show the wolves that you aren't a sheep. Because prey didn't last long. If this is the experience of one's formative years, then it will probably be a lifetime of said behavior.
Contrast this to a country upbringing; many of the same problems exist, true, but at least there is a little space to cool things off.
Cheers
Cycloptichorn