let's not forget the benefits of watermelon, kiwi and strawberry to make everybody happier 'on the job' so to speak.
All right L'k I could see it in yer eyes!!!
beth - explain? Aphrodesiacs?
Husker - could you? Hmmm.
Think beth was referring to 'flavour enhancers'
Quote: Aww Gen, your story is sad, and I hope those bastards rot in hell, or better yet, in jail with a cellmate named Bubba...it does sound like you and yer hubby have found a great connection though. I always get a little teary hearing about lost souls connecting
Hubby should do something special for you, you special person....maybe put on some nice music you like, candles, a little wine, unicorn posters on the wall....maybe a nice relaxing massage with exotic oils...some gentle foreplay, and see what 'goes down'...
Awww Cav... You are too sweet yourself! I bet Mrs Cav can't get enough of you! Its ok, brag! LOL
My story is just that, my story. Its not me and in no way should you feel bad for me. Its just one of the many events that carved me into the Ivory Unicorn you see before you.
Besides..... In the words of the great Gary Morris "If you're ever gonna see a rainbow.. you gotta stand a little rain!"
It made me ready for him and marriage at the young age I was when I met him, and married him. So Hey! Its all GOOOOOOOD!!!
And of course, now all I'm thinking is "but what if all those little strawberry seeds falls off"?
The mind wanders to dangerous places......I think I'll shut up now.
LOL
Yeah, seems a little dangerous.
Are there any others?
I have heard of oranges, lemons and Pineapple..but I'm not sure if they work or not, or how long it takes for it take effect.
Anyone else know?
Perhaps I should start a thread on this!
I don't really believe in aphrodesiacs.
at least not aphrodisiacal(?) food.
Ahem...I should interject...I believe we are talking about edible products commonly availible at your local sex shop to 'enhance' flavour...so to speak, during the act, not actual food itself as an aphrodisiac. Gen had a good idea....if you start a thread on food aphrodisiacs Gen, put it in food and drink, and if I beat you to it, (may not, out the door soon)...I will certainly get involved.
Also, what is worse, strawberry seeds or sand?
That's not what we're talking about.
Certian foods, can change certian chemical compositions of.. shall I say bodily fluids.
If you or your partner eats a certian kind of food, usually fruit, or drink certian juices, It changes the flavor so oral sex is easier for some people to perform. Such as it "sweetens" the deal and makes it that much easier to swallow.
Sorry for bad puns, Tactful.. I'm not!
cav - knew that, but the mind wanders, and that's where it ended up. I couldn't resist sharing and implanted that thought into your minds! heehee
Sand is worse.
Gen - gin is good, sweet fruit is good, acidic juice/fruit is bad, red meat is bad.
OK - that's it for the sharing. I'm sure you'll all be the happier for it.
I read the other day in some magazine that men dislike those flavored lubricants. Taste doesn't really matter to me. In the state I'm in at this point in the game, I'm just simply not noticing taste.........not at all.
And I agree with Dys, oral sex has it's multiple uses, for both sexes, although I haven't found that it's easier to have multiple orgasms with oral sex than with intercourse...... although it can be a way to extend orgasm past the point in which a man can or wants to participate. And then there are those who can do it all. Some can go for hours. Which is always nice. And of course this is where a woman who is enthusiastic about giving to her man can often be quite helpful. Some women have learned that it's possible to really let go and enjoy themselves and some have not.
In my experience, and this extends beyond personal experience because I hear a lot about my patient's sex lives and have studied sexual response literature, there is a full range of combinations, skills, abilities, etc. To each his own. And it's always nice where there's a good match.
It's true, Gen, when a person has endured too much trauma, it can have the effect of causing a difficulty with the act of letting go. The sense of merging, symbiosis, or loss of control can be very fearful and thus many try to avoid that unpleasurable state of fear by avoiding the experience of abandon. It's equally true of those neurotically hung up (those who feel guilty about pleasure or are afraid of punishment for pleasure) and for those who just haven't discovered it yet. Some sadly never do.
Hee! K, my bad....rumour is, vegetarians are sweeter...
It seems that one would get as good as the give. Add ons such as flavors of food don't enhance sexual interaction for me.
Hi, Robby. Are you aware of how appropriate your avatar is for this particular topic?
ok so who is going to have a good time tonight after all this discussion?? no lies 
