jpinMilwaukee wrote:nimh wrote:Some serious lack of basic human decency here.
Get off your high horse nimh.
No I bleedin well will not. I know from close-up how it is to have to live without a parent and I've seen (and now know) how it is to suddenly have to adapt to living in a country you've never been in before, or never for long. And the stuff I know from close-up was when I (or the other person) was way into the twenties, even thirty-something, and its still bloody painful. To demand that either of that is done to a whole category of
kids because you're concerned about lowering the statistic of illegal immigrants from 6% to 5,1%, or whatever it is, is just plain shameful, period.
jpinMilwaukee wrote:This is a silly ridiculous argument. You people and your fantasy view of utopia are seriously deluded. It sounds great to say "everyone should be treated with compassion" and I'm sure it helps you all fall asleep at night. To bad we live in the real world and sometimes bad things happen.
Well, in this case it is something bad that you people want to MAKE happen, and that dont NEED to happen - witness the compromise legislation currently being dealt with! By your own Senators. They all deluded utopians too?
So, no, no reason for people to just lay down and let you enforce such measures that are just plain cruel, when not doing them will hardly send waves of catastrophe through the country. That may be how you
want the "real world" to be, but then there's people like us to stop the world from becoming all that brutal, thank you very much.
I mean, whats
"utopian", for god's sake, about proposing a compromise where at least those who are born in the country are allowed to stay - with their parents if they're minors? The Spanish and Italian governments have declared amnesties that went a lot further still, and it hasnt sent their economy into collapse. Your Senate has just decided on legislation that will go plenty of ways to exactly this; and in fact, the business leaders your of country are actually in
favour of such more flexible application of immigration laws. Are they utopian too?
The "utopian/do-gooder" putdown is such a red herring in the context we were talking about, its a purely rhetorical gag.
jpinMilwaukee wrote:You have a choice to come here legally or illegally. If you choose illegally you may have to face the consequences of getting caught. [..] So if you get caught... to bad, so sad.
Well you were, I will remind you, talking about kids who were actually BORN in the States. They didnt do anything illegal, yet you want to punish them for their parents decision to seek a better life, by separating them from their parents or sending them to a country theyve never lived in (quite possibly never even been to).
jpinMilwaukee wrote:This silly argument about thrusting poor innocent kids in an unfamiliar world is equally ridiculous. Their parents obviously lived in an unfamiliar world when they left behind their country and came here illegally... I don't see why the kids would have anymore difficult a time going the reverse direction.
Cause they're KIDS?
You seen the heartache it takes a kid to even move from state to state within the US, losing their friends, their school, their familiar surrounding? Now imagine them to be thrust into a country theyve never been in, where everything is different, where the school system is different (and they might even be set back years, having only gone to English-language primary, secondary school themselves), etc.
Lemme guess, youve never emigrated have you? Its a tough deal. OK, so those adults chose it. But this kid, you are deporting into that tough deal against everything he wants and without him ever having done anything wrong in the first place. Yeah, pretty easy to lecture about how, well, "they'll survive", from your comfy chair.
jpinMilwaukee wrote:So again... stop deluding yourself, get off your high horse and try living in reality for once.
I will defend the reality I live in, thank you very mucj, where people are still able to show some basic decency and common empathy. Like the church folks who take care of asylum-seekers or the folk like my parents who've done their share in working for others - hell, wait, forget about even actively
working for others, just at least not be actively
pushing for the deportation of kids or the separation of families, that aint too much to ask from "reality", where I'm coming from!
In fact, I'm pretty sure that your attitude on this particular argument is actually in the
minority - so you can stop preaching about "living in reality", and all. Plenty of folks out here doing fine "living in reality" without ardently wishing for foreign kids to be deported to countries theyve never been in, just ask at your local parish or something.