How does a man go about knowing how to get girlfriend/wife?

What I really want to know is *how* do the other 98% or so aquire the skills?

What do they have, or what have they experienced, or what have people told them, that I've missed out on?

And if there are no specific steps involved, then what am I ment to do?

Where should I start?
Say there's a woman I'm interested in. What next?

Aha!

So you've read 'the book'? ;-)

So you might have some idea as to what I'm on about, here.

What do you believe? Is the problem purely psychological? Or is it more likely to be neurological or biological?

I don't know, but it sure would be interesting to find out about how others see it.

Most people don't seem to understand. ((

ooooohhhhh kaaaaaay.....now, you're supposed to ask ME something......

you know, really I'm starting to think there's a leg pulling going on...if you HAD female friends, then you know who to meet them.....there's no separate "Lines" you give a girl you're attracted to....

in another thread, you say you don't have time to read the thread....I'm not going to bother to say any more on the subject to you....because specific examples have been given. you keep asking the same questions, not bothering to read responses....now I know you do know how to meet and talk to people.....there.....you've learned the big secret that everyone else in the world knew except you....welcome to the club, don't forget to pick up your complimentary bag of biscotti on the way out.

That's a good start as you should know what women like better than most guys.

Personally, any time I met a guy it was sheer chance that we met. No setting up, no looking. It just happened. Unfortunatly, once you leave college that becomes difficult because people aren't just hanging around everywhere. Have you considered online dating? It's a good way to just make friends and get to know people. You can choose to meet if you want or you can just talk and feel out the territory (ie, get to know what you like in women and what they like in men).

What do you like to do? Join a group that focuses on what you like to do. If it's drama, join a troupe. If it's painting, join a class. You'll meet women who are interested in at least one thing you are interested in and you'll have something to talk about.

You said you have lots of girl friends so you obviously don't have trouble talking to girls.

Blogg, if you've already reserved yourself to being among that 1.5% of men who go through life (that is, their WHOLE LIVES) being lonely, then you can't get away from it. You've given up already. You seem like a pretty young guy to be giving up on the entire rest of your life already. If you don't want to be in that 1.5%, then stop thinking about yourself as being in that 1.5%. It's that simple. You go from thinking I will be lonely for the rest of my life to I will not be lonely for the rest of my life. I will find someone. That's it. That's the magic secret. Cat's outta the bag, etc.

Seriously. If you're in that 1.5%, yer just fuct. It's like being struck by lightning. Tough ****. Get a prostitute.

and where did this 98% business come from anyway....

no matter how much research is done, there's no way to tell that a certain percentage does anything.

Here's a life 101 for everyone....

if you just met someone who is the greatest thing since sliced bread...100% of the world finds love.

if you are having a dry spell, but have faith someone will come along you'll love....you believe 50% or 75% of the world finds love.

If you think you will never find love...you thing you're in some cockamamy tiny percentage someone pulled out of their butt.

How many people meet someone they are interested in, but don't hook up because they know this person wouldn't pass inspection of how the 2 of your would look together to your friends or society in general.

There's been quite a bit of talk lately about talking to attracive women, or even very attractive women...haven't heard much said about attractive men....only that they should keep their privates clean...which of course I advocate in any event.

Anyway...I think a large part of why you don't see someone less than average looking with someone generally acknowledged to be good looking, is because from the very beginning, there was this...I can't let people see me talking, let alone being with someone like THAT.

Even if you are just looking for sex, how do you know that less than average person isn't the best lay you'll ever have?

Now that I think about it, back in the day, the absolute best looking guy I ever slept with, totally gorgeous...well, he wasn't the worst in bed I've ever had, but he was in the bottom 25% percent. It had nothing to do with him being self centered because he felt he could rely on his looks and didn't have to even try....he just was not all that great.

I don't know where I'm going with all this, I'm getting in a weird mood this last few days.....

Just all these techniques and advice (some from me) when all we want is someone to share our time with...it shouldn't be so hard....and it's sad that it is....

You know what?

If you happen to be a pretty good looking person, and are not attached to someone....go out and ask someone for a date that doesn't look anything like what your friends or society thinks you should be on a date with.

God forbid, what if you found that their company was really enjoyable....wouldn't that be terrible.? You might have to decide between appearance and subtance.

Oh no! Not that!

Nobody has been able to answer my core question....

It's not skills - it's common sense.

"How do the other 98% or so acquire the skills?"

It's a tough question. I guess one answer would be to not be so annoying by asking idiotic questions. Maybe you should try that.

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Hey Kicky,

Where the hell is:
131 East 93rd Street, New York, NY
What the **** is it like?

It is very close to Central Park. I used to live very close to that area. Very nice. It's in a neighborhood called Yorkville. Upper East side of Manhatan. Museum mile, which consists of the Metropolitan museum, the Guggenheim, and a whole bunch of other lesser-knowns, is right there.

Why do you ask?

blogg you've gone way beyond the point of ridiculous.

either you're an A2ker messing around....or your a complete f'ing moron, or both.

what do you need the steps on how to make toast?

your "core" question has been answered ad nauseum on this and at least 2 other threads....

You're just being stupid now...you've gotten your answer. go away.

My second wife lives there with her new(er) husband. I have not asked but I don't think I have an open invitation

Well, if you need anyone to leave a bag of flaming cat **** on her doorstep, let me know.

That's where I was I going with this and I'll tell you why:

Once she learned how to be orgasmic from penile insertion alone (in the missionary position - ho hum) everything else went out the window, and a replacement was only a matter of time.

I once had to teach my friend how to boil eggs. No joke.

wow....ever hear of the darwin awards?

I have ... But he didn't die, so he's not eligible!

How does a man go about knowing how to get girlfriend/wife?


Not just anyone can cook eggs like this and have them come out perfectly every time... not green, not soft, but just right.

There is a special way to do it, and I've known only one person besides myself who can cook them, using this method.