<Bites lip, tries to hold it back, fails>
No, CJ, that's what it'd be like if you had sex with her. A wooden spoon in a tureen.
<runs away>
And I'll repeat myself this once for your benefit as well, Chai. Did you read my post above? My response to what cjhsa had written about horses had nothing to do with you.
It seemed to me that cjhsa was trying to make a funny and it didn't go over so well with you. Things got out of hand. I suggested we move on but if that's not possible then have at it. No skin off my nose. Just don't drag me into it because my focus in this thread is not you and has never been you.
OK while I was typing my last post, you two already posted yours, so mine arrived after yours.
cjhsa - apology accepted.
Please don't think I stirred the pot, because as I said, your post appeared while I was typing.
Water under the bridge.
eoe - same scenerio to you, I was typing while you were click post. HOWEVER, there is nothing in your post that insulted me that indicates you were speaking of any person other than me. BUT, since you say later your intent was to someone else, I will have to take you at your word.
Perhaps you need to be clearer in whom you addressing comments especially nasty ones, about.
So, most say that a man being able to tell that a woman has been with someone else is bs but InfraBlue says yes, a man can feel a difference. Could it be that some men are just more sensitive than others?
I think it's crap. Primarily because the cervix moves at different times of the month. It gets softer and harder, higher and lower, depending on the time in a woman's cycle. So naturally, the vagina changes shape and you could assume that a man could tell when as well.
So can you? Can you tell when she is in different stages of her cycle?
One can tell if a woman in coitus is menstruating, because of a different sensation in the lubricant . . .
Hey, it's just physiology, 'K?
You saying you've never indulged in sexual intercourse during a heavy flow?
So we're good then Chai?
Just one more thing. It's about your avatar.
Setanta wrote:Hey, it's just physiology, 'K?
You saying you've never indulged in sexual intercourse during a heavy flow?
Yes, before I have. But I don't like it or prefer it. Just seems...I don't know, ick. Nothing like month old blood and tissue....
ALRIGHTY THEN!!
You don't think there's anything to what infrablue said about "fitting like a glove" in a monogamous relationship? Maybe I'm just being a romantic but that sounds kind of nice.
BD wrote:So can you? Can you tell when she is in different stages of her cycle?
With someone with whom I've been in a long term relationship, I think so.
I can also
smell the cyclical change on them, usually.
eoe wrote:ALRIGHTY THEN!!
You don't think there's anything to what infrablue said about "fitting like a glove" in a monogamous relationship? Maybe I'm just being a romantic but that sounds kind of nice.
Nope, I think Infrablue is being romantic in thinking that his partner holds his shape while he is gone. I also think that we get to know each others body pretty well to notice any changes that are significant but to say that the vagina never changes unless someone else has been in it is just weird. I mean, everyday our bodies are changing. I don't see how the vagina can "mold" to anything. It isn't like there is a penis in it 24/7 to hold the shape.
InfraBlue wrote:
I can also smell the cyclical change on them, usually.
That is pretty obvious to anyone getting a whiff, IMO. I can tell as well based on the smell.
eoe wrote:You don't think there's anything to what infrablue said about "fitting like a glove" in a monogamous relationship? Maybe I'm just being a romantic but that sounds kind of nice.
Romantic, but not awfully scientific.
All this stuff you people are talking about would actually mean one would have to pay attention to the woman's body during sex.
Guys do this?
No Slappy, like I said, I'm too busy being quietly grateful.
its not that a woman holds a mans 'shape' between sex-scapades..
it is..
hmm.. how can I word this..
she is able to stretch to accomidate size easier then she did the first time, after a while in a relationship.
make sense???
that is kinda like a "glove' fitting..
How about it perhaps being a case of welcoming and/or enveloping the familiar penis as opposed to the unfamiliar or new penis?
THe only reason one could assume that what eoe suggested is true is if the woman was more relaxed with an old, familiar partner, versus more tense with a new partner, thus flexing the muscles of the vagina.