Can Men Really Tell?

That is complete bullshit. No frickin' way in hell that can happen. Nope. Impossible. He must have had a pretty good idea that she fooled around on him and used that line to make her think he could really tell. And she fell for it. Pretty good trick though, I gotta say.

yeah, i agree.

the only thing that changes a womans vagina is birth.
And even that doesnt do a WHOLE lot..



creative guy! Gotta hand it to him for that one. ;-)

I'm glad that Kick resisted the temptation of perpetuate this horsie poop . . . i have no doubt that some young buck will show up to claim it's true--it ain't. In fact, 99.9% of guys are so totally freaked to be dippin' their wick that considerations like that are the last things on what remains of their mind once they're in.

Giving birth, however, effects women differently. I had a lover with three children who had the attributes of a sixteen year old virgin, and i've had a lover who had had a single child who could have accomodated my thigh . . .

I think that we all are able to "read minds" in one way or another -- the collection of microexpressions and body language and phrasing and all the rest of it that lend clues, whether we are consciously processing them or not.

I think it's very possible that your stepson "knew" something was going on, and that's how it manifested itself in his consciousness even if it's not actually physically possible.

When an old boyfriend of mine returned from a trip during which he had cheated on me, it was very early morning and I was sleeping. He shook my shoulder a bit to wake me up to say he was home, and the first words out of my mouth when I was half-awake were "where is your watch?" He'd left it at the other woman's house, and blanched. Wasn't long before it all came out, and he said later that it completely freaked him out that I seemed to "know" immediately.

No WAY would they know.

Not like I have any experience with anything like that......

No, I couldn't tell...just by the "feel".

Besides, I'm too busy being grateful to think about anything else.

true set.

Just like penis' , vaginas come in all sizes as well.


To get a bit gross here...
It would be possible for someone to notice a diffrence in a womans vagina IF it was from sex ONLY..
and if they were " passing" her around or having sex with her within a few minutes of each other.

Simply because the blood flow softens the muscles ( sometimes alot.. sometimes not ) AND the penis stretches out the vagina during intercourse..
So it IS a possibility.. but , he would have had to have had sex with her.. with in a few minutes of someone else for that to apply..

( biting lip to keep in bad jokes.. )

Good Lord.

No...sorry Shewolf, I would STILL be too busy being grateful.

You rang?

But you're the bad one...

Boy, did you guys jump on this one!!

It does sound somewhat outrageous. I mean, if that were true, that men really could feel the difference, then the risk factor for women having affairs would be, in alot of cases, too much of a chance to take, don't you think? Or is it, as one poster said, that most men are too caught up in the moment to tune in to such a degree? Is that the case for all men?

Im sure, attentive men, with wives, or long time lovers might notice a diffrence? Maybe..

but after about... I dunno.. 3? 4 Minutes of a woman being aroused.. she is a bit softer then before.
Detectable or not..

same after a few minutes of penetration..

3 or 4 minutes? 3 OR 4 MINUTES??

Bloody hell, no wonder I don't notice any difference. What do you think I am, a marathon man?

I think it would be rather easy. After having sex exclusively (assumed) with someone for a long time, then breaking up, then getting back together...she might just move a little different, or ask for something she didn't before....pretty obvious.

Of course men can tell. Sheesh. If we couldn't, there'd be a word for those poor saps whose wives were gettin' some on the side.

Cockholder! Yeah, we could call 'em cockholders!

yeah, obviously the only reason she would ask for something different is that she'd been with someone else.

I forgot the cardinal rule of sex, never, NEVER ask for anything different.

Maybe that was the reason she broke up with you. Now she's back thinking "maybe this could work if he would only freakin' do something interesting. Maybe if I move a little differently, he'll get the hint. Nah, he'll probably just think I was with someone else"

You mean that men actually talk to their wives during the abominable act? The only time that ever happened to me was when my wife phoned to see what time I would be home.

no

most of them use morse code.. :wink: