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Does my female boss have a huge crush on me?

 
 
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 11:12 am
@izzythepush,
No not the same woman. Read again
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neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 11:13 am
@Userr3989,
Ok.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 01:29 pm
I am going to raise this issue with her sooner or later. I'll sit tight for a while and see how things unfold.
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persiaRae562
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 02:38 pm
@Userr3989,
The fact that your boss took off her wedding ring could be an indication of something brewing . I would say give it a bit more interaction and read her more before you start your flirting dance.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 02:52 pm
@persiaRae562,
"The fact that your boss took off her wedding ring could be an indication of something brewing . I would say give it a bit more interaction and read her more before you start your flirting dance."

Thank you for addressing the question, She mirrors my body language too. My emotions bounce back, creating the perception of an even greater chemistry than already is the case.

Her eye gaze is straight into my eyes, which according to researcher is the gaze of love, believe it or not.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 04:19 pm
What's even more amazing is that she has two kids ages around 3-5 (rough guess based on loose info). Been married to the man 11 years. VERY good looking dude same age.

And she still takes off the ring.

Maybe now you guys see why this is something extraordinary.
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neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 04:21 pm
@Userr3989,
Or,

She's your boss and commands your attention:

https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/eye-contact-communication#:~:text=Maintaining%20eye%20contact%20can%20be,inspire%20people%20to%20take%20action.

Why eye contact is important in communication

Eye contact is can help improve your conversations with others as well as your public speaking skills. Here are a few reasons to improve your eye contact communication:

Improved concentration and confidence. Eye contact helps you maintain concentration and focus while showing confidence in what you're saying or presenting. If you maintain eye contact with another person, you can feel better knowing they’re paying attention and thinking about your topic.

Improved authority and empathy. Eye contact can project that you're an expert on what you're presenting. Holding eye contact while delivering information can also show your audience that you’re processing their reactions and have empathy for their feelings.

Improved engagement. Through eye contact, you can turn passive audience members into active participants in your speech or presentation, increasing the likelihood they’ll retain some information or perform the action that you're requesting.

Although eye contact can be helpful when talking with others, it's important to treat each conversation as its own unique situation and remember that some people cannot make eye contact, or are extremely uncomfortable doing so.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 04:22 pm
@neptuneblue,
There's vulnerability in her eyes.
neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 04:26 pm
@Userr3989,
It's actually called exasperation.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 04:53 pm
"It can't believe it!". "You have no relationships in the past."
"this is so strong I'm almost moved"

"You will know instantly that it's her".

/psychic in august last year.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 08:14 pm
@persiaRae562,
Quote:
Re: Userr3989 (Post 7310700)
The fact that your boss took off her wedding ring could be an indication of something brewing . I would say give it a bit more interaction and read her more before you start your flirting dance.


Yeah, like bloating with swollen fingers.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 08:16 pm
@Userr3989,
Userr3989 wrote:

There's vulnerability in her eyes.


And a vacuum between your ears. This is a trolling topic. I don't think you even have a job.
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 02:11 am
@Userr3989,
Look up narcissistic personality disorder because it fits you.

You say you're incredibly good looking and a genius to boot. You don't say your boss might be interested, or could be attracted, you say she has a crush, and not any crush, a massive one.

You're not even interested in this woman as a person, just as a sexual conquest, all you talk about are her physical charactetistics, nothing about her personality.

Nobody wants to end up with a narcissist in the end it's too much hard work.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 05:41 am
"Do you guys have any after work gatherings?"

"Yeah, the boss has set one for May..."

Here we go..

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Userr3989
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 02:10 pm
@izzythepush,
You would be a narcissist too if you made a woman give up her wedding ring after two encounters.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 03:23 pm
@Userr3989,
I think you alarm her, and not in a good way. She may look into your eyes to keep herself safe from your alarming behavior. If I sensed a man became instantly entranced with me, I'd want to do everything I could do to keep myself safe from him. Subordinate or not, some people can't be trusted.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 03:27 pm
@glitterbag,
If I smile,, her gaze is smiling.. if I'm serious, it's serious. Complete mirror effect.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Fri 24 Mar, 2023 03:31 pm
If she goes through with this, what will it most likely mean to me?

Will I be part of her kids life (they are somewhere in the age span of 2-5)? Or will she see me every other weekend? She has two.


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Userr3989
 
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Reply Mon 3 Apr, 2023 08:07 am
Ring is back on her finger and the seduction perfume is gone... two weeks apart from each other.

However, she mirrors my body gestures and points her body towards me in meetings and tours around the building, 8 other people around me....Feet straight in my direction.

Additionally, she willl NOT look in my eyes across the room for the 3 hour lecture (we've locked eyes repeatedly in the past). So we've gone from staring into each other to avoidance.

Hard to predict this one. Could probably bang her and probably will. I would like more though...

Her eyes did lit up when we said hello after two weeks apart though. I think she's fighting it.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Mon 3 Apr, 2023 08:10 am
I got up for a break in the meeting, when we made eye contact for the first time close range.. and asked a simple question: 5 minutes (break) ?

It looked like time stopped in her eyes. I am going to break through this...
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