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Does my female boss have a huge crush on me?

 
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 05:08 am
@Userr3989,
Wow, sexist much?
Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 05:30 am
@WilliamClifford,
What about the wedding ring?

She still has it off... so it wasn't due to the doctors appointment..

She had it ON our last interview when she agreed to hire me. OFF both times I started.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 05:40 am
@jespah,
"Wow, sexist much?"

Just asking...
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 05:50 am
I have to ask another thing. If I walk towards her office she locks eyes with me. Stone faced, steady gaze.....

Why is she so serious? Is she trying to hide her emotions?
Region Philbis
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 06:07 am
@Userr3989,

how old are you, how old is she?

my original advice still holds -- don't **** where you eat...
Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 06:14 am
@Region Philbis,
We are the same age, separated by only 7 days. Same star sign. And we are extremely in-tune with each other... I am increasingly fond AND attracted to her.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 07:21 am
I want you guys to help me now... When can I try to steer it into the direction I want,, and HOW can I do it in a way that I can get out of it, its not mutual or she doesn't dare to....

We've been working for three days and I'm want her bad already.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 10:03 am
Guys, I just realized that she moved a blonde colleagues shift, so that they don't coincide with my time!.. Why? Cause the boss interested in me isn't there ....she's on vacation for two weeks....

The blonde was seeking me, helping me out, and sitting next to me, in front my female boss first day...

My boss came in despite being on vacation to have a meeting with this blonde and switch around her schedule.

She panicked and did this. Could have just had the meeting prior to going on vacation.

I was supposed to work with the blonde today... I know her hours. We worked monday-wednesday last week...
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 10:11 am
What a bitch!

(Still love her though).
Mame
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 11:26 am
@Userr3989,
You need to get a life.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 11:28 am
@Mame,
I am talking about my life.

How's your life going?
Mame
 
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Reply Wed 22 Mar, 2023 05:56 pm
@Userr3989,
Way better than yours. I live in reality. You're talking 'love' after only a few meetings and a couple of days. That's not love, that's a crush, puppy love, for babies.

We're not going to give you any advice on how to approach your boss about a potential relationship because we think you're dreaming and it's unprofessional.

Quit mooning about and do your job.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 05:06 am
From random Google page:

"If you notice your wife no longer wearing her wedding ring, then it may be time to question what is going on in her life.

"It is a clear indication that she isn’t interested in her current partner and has put all of her energy into someone else"

"Maybe she has a new boyfriend and is happy, or maybe she’s in the process of divorcing you."

neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 05:35 am
@Userr3989,
She's not your wife and she does not owe you a reason why she doesn't wear a ring. You need to stop obsessing over someone you don't know, shouldn't know and most importantly, will never know.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 05:54 am
@neptuneblue,
She has flirted with me.
neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 05:57 am
@Userr3989,
No, she didn't.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 05:58 am
@neptuneblue,
I was there. And I won't repeat what it was. So odds are that I am the new one that she is focusing her attention on. So to say that I can just mind my own business is naive
neptuneblue
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 06:35 am
@Userr3989,
The odds are is that you're mistaking friendliness as flirtation, and seeing what you want to see while disregarding the boss-employee relationship which should be nothing but a professional atmosphere.

You're playing a dangerous game and it will not end well for you.
Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 07:22 am
@neptuneblue,
I don't. She locks eyes whenever we make contact. and it stuns me so I lock myself. She repeatedly does this and throws me off. It doesn't look intentional on her part. She just gets sucked in.
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Userr3989
 
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Reply Thu 23 Mar, 2023 07:35 am
She said with a very low voice when saying hello to me at in store when we eye lock: what are you doing...? So I low I couldn't make it out until it echoed.

Maybe she meant in terms of romance and that's why it lowered. I didn't think of it until now. But anyway, it was fine when it finally registered in my brain what she said, and I answered the non romance interpretation.

Pretty funny, it could mean either one.

Which do you guys think it was?
 

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